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Is it bad to be a femboy?

I am not gay but I am a femboy and a christian and I do not want to do anything bad against Him. I need help please.
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what is a femboy
tiagih posted over a year ago
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Thank you all for the answers! God bless you! <3
-Zyclone- posted over a year ago
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@tiagih - someone who is a male and not into all that rough-tough hardcore guy stuff and who is softer, more sensitive.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
 -Zyclone- posted over a year ago
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TomboyYaoiFan56 said:
Not at all. Being femboy doesn't mean you're gay. It just means you're effeminate is all.
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posted over a year ago 
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yeah, people will pick on you though! but that's just cause they're jealous cause you're gorgie ^ ^
coriann posted over a year ago
Cinders said:
It's common belief that God created you as you are to be who you are, without fear or consequence. If you don't feel you fit into socially (not religiously) determined gender roles, then that's how God wanted you to be, and you should not deny that. God doesn't want you to change who you are. He wants you to be proud of who you are. He wants you to stand up to people who may mock you for who you are. He wants you to face adversity head on and come out stronger for it.

He wants you to follow your own path. So long as you are true to yourself, and harm no one else, you will make Him proud.
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posted over a year ago 
hetalianstella said:
Nothing wrong with it at all dear =)
Just be yourself~
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posted over a year ago 
Pluffy said:
The that makes me stop and think is well, their is a verse that Paul said being effeminate is not allowed, and well to be honest I love feminine guys, and now I just found out it is a sin?
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posted over a year ago 
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i know of the verse you speak of, Pluffy is right, i used to be a bible fanatic, and sadly Paul did state something about this, i will try to find the verse people!
coriann posted over a year ago
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coriann posted over a year ago
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Paul also talks about the male dresscode as well, i tried to find it but stupid google won't let me
coriann posted over a year ago
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but Paul says a lot of things, it's possible that the word could be either flawed or misinterpreted
coriann posted over a year ago
coriann said:
:\ my mom thinks it's wrong, girls are supposed to dress like girls and boys are supposed to dress like boys! she says, im a tomboy, i have just recently "come out of the closet" im getting a little braver and have started by doing little things like wearing a boy's T-shirt or a boy's chain, sometimes i feel like i should have been a boy, but my family is appalled, i feel like a gross freak around them! lol, everyone tells me, why don't you dress like a girl, why don't you "be cool" and dress sexy and stuff. but the truth is, i was never cool when i did! and now that i've come out of my shell, some people like me a lot! :) im louder and more confident and i feel more free and loose
to answer your question i dunno boy! *shakes head* hey, dude it's not like you're gay, don't let anyone make you feel like a freak, you're you and...i think femboys r kinda sexy *wink*

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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
I'm sure you'll be blessed too Zyclone- for caring to want to please God is an admirable thing, indeed.

People struggle for acceptance within themselves, from parents, from others, and often times from God. We seek understanding to validate ourselves & our actions as the human-beings we are but we cannot ever justify our own. When we are born again, we take on a new life and new mantle, whether we are mannly or femme, whether we have tendancies or no matter our predisposition. We are now a new creation developing into who God is making us. :)

It's great that you care, but with all the pressures of the world, that is TOO MUCH... give it to God who cares too. We are not cookie-cutter Christians. We each have gifts and we'll all fall short -just keep looking up (to Him). He'll help you with whatever you need!
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posted over a year ago 
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good answer!
coriann posted over a year ago
ShadowFan100 said:
No of course not. I don't act all girly but I tend to be softer compared to other guys.

I don't like stereotypical guy stuff, like: hunting, football, boxing and so on.

I strive to be my own person and just that. I doubt God wants me to be some stereotype, so I won't. I say just be you: that is what God would like seeing in people.
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posted over a year ago 
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O.O my good friend is just like that! he's soft and he's not like the guys i know, but he's not feme either, lol!
coriann posted over a year ago
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i take it that feme means girly :P
coriann posted over a year ago
MineTurtle said:
Naw! It's not at all bad! It's perfectly okay to be yourself!
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eazyphantom said:
it is a constant self denial. Living for Christ is living totally against your own nature, because it dwells in truth, rather than comfortability and pleasure. i'd suggest this- i was a femboy as well at one point in my life.
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Chris9592 said:
I don't think it is because it means you are still a guy but you like wearing female clothing and no church said you go to 'hell' but if you are gay than that is a sin.
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