OK i was wondering about something so please comment!!! OK so if a girl is a slut when she dates a lot of guys what is a guy when he dates a lot of girls????????
milrox18 and jedigal pretty much covered it. But I just wanted to elaborate on the double standards of society.
Even if a girl doesn't date a lot of guys-- even if she only dates one guy, but "gives in" to his advances a little too easily (according to society and/or her friends), then she is often called "easy" or "a slut" and these are negative names (in case you weren't clear about that).
This is an ugly symbol of our still patriarchal-leaning society. It "blames" women for sexual indiscretions and frees men of the responsibility because "they can't help themselves" and women are supposed to not enjoy sex. So men are allowed to be sexually open, and women are supposed to stifle their sexuality.
But women shouldn't be ashamed of their sexuality. Women can and do have healthy sexual appetites, just like their male counterparts. Often, women who are called "sluts" are just more sexually active than societal norms (the norm being "stay a virgin your whole life" of course).
Double standards. Don't you love them?
posted over a year ago
Yeah, if you sleep with a guy, you're a whore. If you're over 14 and a virgin, you're a prude. Lovely, isn't it?
Another name for them is 'playboy'. It's not fair that men can 'play the field' and it's OK. But if a woman does, she's called all kinds of ugly names.
the only one i can think of that everyone did not cover is 2-timer or how many girls he is dating at once so like if he was dating 4 then he would be 4-timer
A manwhore is someone who repeatedly sleeps with random women indescrimately without regard to any consequences. Manwhores are mainly found at local pubs, bars, parties, although they can be found anywhere through out the world.
player..
but this is not fair to men being a man whore and suddenly their gods but if a woman start playing the fild she is imedietly a slut ohh god and their are so many more insults for women than their are for men...evan in spanish zorra, puta facil... and so on men only have one insult maricon which is fag excuse the language plaece and no offnece to the gays that may reading this
an average guy. If a girl dats too many guys, shes a whore. But if a guy dates a lot of girls, they are looked as cool. Thats what i hate. Guys get to call certain girls whores, but they do the exact same thing & everyone thinks theyre so cool & shit.
posted over a year ago
Not everyone...just small minded people lol...I hate it when people give guys the 'higher chair'