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Cinders said:
I never trust anyone who, after saying s/he has feelings for me, blatantly flirts with my friend right in front of me. I'd say this guy isn't worth your time. He's already scored negative points on the "Potential Boyfriend" scale, if you ask me.
I also don't know what "older guy" means. If it means "a year or two ahead of me in school," then treat him like he's your age. He's probably no wiser or more mature than you are, believe me. But if he's several years older... as in, "jail bait" older, well I'd stay away from him altogether, at least until you're eighteen, if you really care enough about this guy (but honestly, the first impression he leaves isn't exactly shining). And I'm not telling you that because "you're too young for him" (even if you are). I'm telling you that because you don't want to get the law involved, and in these situations, the law always gets involved. So avoid that, if you can.
It's your decision. If your friend knows you like him, and that he said he liked you, she should be a decent friend and set him straight about it, or just not respond to the flirting. Or at least tell you about it (which I imagine she has, if he didn't do it in front of your face). And if this guy really likes you, he'd show it. If he doesn't show it, leave it alone. (I am assuming he's not the "jail bait" scenario "older than you").
Lastly - the reason some asked for a translation of your message is that it honestly is difficult to read, even for people close to your generation who might type the same way in text messages or on a LOLcats meme. Don't take it personally, but if you're asking a serious question, treat it like you're writing it for your English teacher - not your BFF. It's just courtesy, that's all.
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