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Boys tease me for anything negative about me. It really bothers me. Does anyone have any advise as to make it stop?

Usually it's my height (really short for my age) and boobs (they say that I am "flat" but my friends say that I have the normal size for my age) I've asked them to stop but it never worked! They make fun of me with those things and still say that I'm "hot"
It shouldn't bother me but it just does! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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punch them in the face or dont go to school anymore, move, or stay in a dark corner for the rest of you life just like me
fanofzeldafan posted over a year ago
 franny_potter posted over a year ago
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Annitaki said:
I understand u since I've been through a similar situation a few years ago,a couple of kids often teased me about my height too and I was feeling very bad.After some time they just stopped.I guess they got bored of saying all the time the same things to me. Since only boys behave u this way they may like u.However many boys act this way to kids they consider to b "weak" and in order to feel good they try to make them feel inferior. Anyway,show them that this tactic doesn't work with u and that they r pathetic and cowards and mean nothing to u.If the situation doesn't improve talk to ur parents or ur teachers.
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but i dont want to ba a tatle tale! because then ill look even more weak!
franny_potter posted over a year ago
RnBStar13 said:
Well hello! they said you're hot, the last time I knew that..that was a compliment. But anyway the best thing to do is just let it go. Try and not let it bother you and if it does..tell someone about it and they can help you. The only way to make it stop is if you do something about it or just ignore it. If you ignore it and pretend like you don't care they will know it's not hurting you and they will leave you alone...trust me on this.
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Hellohoudini said:
I totally agree with RnBStar13...if you ignore it...they'll find a new target...another way to get them to quit is too totally laugh in their faces when they say something...and laugh like you're enjoying it...like youre flirting with them....and one a side note...most of the time if guys pick on a girl for her looks that usually means they like you. Hang in there...it will stop. Promise!
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SelinaKyle said:
I would ignore them as best as you can, just look bored or like it has no effect on you at all, because they're trying to get you to react to them and they'll move on if they see it's not bothering you. That's how bullies are. I wouldn't recommend flirting with them, they sound obnoxious.
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Mrs-Grint said:
Oh my God, SAME! I'm short for my age as well and guys tease me about my "flatness". There's this one boy who's exactly like your description. We have very different opinions on practically everything yet sometimes we can have really funny times together. Like he'd insult me about my gypsy background and then a couple of minutes later he called me a fabulous babe, lol. But one time when he was really irritating, I threatend to kick him where it hurts. Just yell at them to fuck off or something.
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Lawli-gagger said:
What should you do?
Laugh.


I find it funny that they can call you all these crazy things, then turn around and say you're hot.
You should ask them are they schizo. xD
Don't let it get to you. Trust me, you don't want to stress yourself out about it.
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LoopyLuna96 said:
Punch them, a la Hermione.

Seriously, if it's bothering you, tell someone.
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ya but i dont want 2 be a tattle-tale! and they'll tease me even more 4 that!
franny_potter posted over a year ago
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If you feel bad about it, then you tell someone. You won't be a tattle-tale. An if they call you that, who cares? They're the ones with problems. You'll probably find they're too cowardly to go on with it after they've been called on it. :)
LoopyLuna96 posted over a year ago
chan-lee15 said:
boys will be boys, they don't know how to be mature enough until high school, that when they stop making fun of you, if i were you, act like if it really a nice thing and maybe become friends with one of them
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