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Who should I choose?

I have been going to school with these two guys named Alan and Danny for almost three years. When we first met, Alan and I immediatly felt a connection and we started dating, only to be broken up by a jealous friend. Not knowing the truth, we always blamed each other. This past year, Alan and I started dating again. He's always made it very clear in his words that he loves me and would do anything for me, yet I never get any time with him. Alan is the popular type, and he always has mobs of people following him around. Whenever he's with his friends and I'm around, I get completely ignored. Whenever I bring it up, he appologizes and says that he wants to spend time with his friends before they leave next year.
Since I have all this free time, I tend to spend it with Danny. Danny is a sweet, funny guy who really WOULD do anything for me, and he's liked me for three years. I find that I can talk to him about anything, but it feels like he is waiting patiently for Alan and I to break up so he can have me for himself. I would be going out with Danny if I wasn't going out with Alan, but I really don't like Danny as more than a friend right now. I love Alan, but he seems insincere. I know Danny would treat me better, but I don't want to wait for Alan to pull himself together.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
 bonesluver126 posted over a year ago
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germany123 said:
Dont go oot with either of them. stay single till you figured oot what you want. dont be with someone who treats you bad..or someone you dont actually like just cause you dont want to be alone :)
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posted over a year ago 
sweet_n_silly said:
honestly, i think you should choose Danny. he seems to care more. having a bf, no matter how popular, doesn't do you any good if he really doesn't care.
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posted over a year ago 
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i agree
Evka26-vampire posted over a year ago
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exactly
skytail127 posted over a year ago
jeftelover said:
first of all popular people care about them
selfs than other people.choose danny!break up
with Alan!tell him that it isent working!!!

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posted over a year ago 
me_who_else said:
I know when you first read this you will think that it is a bad idea and a bad comprimise, but give it a little time and you will think it's pretty good. I think that you should break up with Alan. Even though right now you think that you don't like Danny as more than a friend later you could decide that you like his sweetness, sincerity, and any other quality that I didn't mention. I broke up with my bf Tyler cuz I didn't really like him all that much anymore. But he had all of those qualities. Now he is going out with my ex-best friend and I have realised that I'm in love with him. I am regreting breaking up with him soooo much. And that is what made me and my best friend become ex-best friends. So I hope you think this is good advice. I don't want anyone to be in the kind of pain I am in, cuz it sux major butt.
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posted over a year ago 
JazzLover101 said:
Alan doesn't love you it seems to me Danny cares don't wait for Alan boys any boy isn't worth it I don't even know you and just by the description I can tell you r way to good for Alan you deserve better
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posted over a year ago 
teamsalvatore98 said:
well.tell alan that its really hurting your feelings,give him another chance,then,if it doesant get better than go to danny.
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well.tell alan that its really hurting your feelings,give him another chance,then,if it doesant get better than go to danny.
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