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My ex-friends are being rude to my new friends and I

I used to be friends with two girls named Kathy and Julia. Kathy was my best friend, but Julia is just a jerk. She would always try to get me to stop being friends with Kathy--hit me, tell me Kathy didn't like me, tell Kathy that I didn't like her, calling me rude things, etc. But then Kathy started being rude to me, too, and ignoring me. So I decided to stop being their friends. I got a new circle of friends, and my current best friend Tessa. But now both of them are being horrible to us, Julia especially. She finally got what she wanted; for me to stop being friends with Kathy, but now she still wants to mess with us?
I'm completely at a loss here. It feels like my fault that they're mean to us, and I don't want Tessa to stop being my friend because of it. We've told teachers and parents and everyone we could about it, but it only seems to make it worse. What should I do?
 Mistyflower posted over a year ago
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kicksomebut23 said:
Telling parents or teachers shouldn't make it worse. that's stupid. that adult suppose to provide more help for you. If Kathy is doing this to make you seperate from her and Julia. It's because she's jealous of you. You should've been suspicious. If they disrespect you than you did the right thing to find new friends. If there bothering you try to ignore it or stand up for yourself and tell them to leave you alone. If it doesn't work tell the principle or counselor to help you. but you have to learn just ignore it.
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plus it's not your fault because you didn't do anything wrong.
kicksomebut23 posted over a year ago
Bridget_J said:
First off, YOU are 100 times better than Julia because she is just mean. YOU are 100 times better than Kathy because she is still friends with Julia even though Julia was mean to both of you. They are just jealous of you I bet. Ignore them, be confident around them, show them they don't bother you. Parents,teachers and any adult you tell should help you. Go back and tell them again. It is not showing weakness if you ask for help, it is showing that you are smart enough to get help.
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