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bf and bff trouble

the other day was suppose to be the best day ever. it was a party my boyfriend came over and my bestie spent the night. well it sucked because they were fighting. and it got worse after dillan (my boyfriend) left. my bestie emily said that dillan was a player. so i asked how so. she said they were sexting eachother. me and dillan have been togeather for a while now. i just found out last night and when they told me i cried. i hate crying but i cant believe them... they are telling me different stories ad i have no clue who to believe. em said dillan started it and dillan said em started it. em could have stopped it and im sure she started it. she always acts like a whore to him... she says she wants to have a water fight and she will wear a white shirt -_-.... so i COMPLETELY believe she did it. so i talked to dillan last night when em was sleepin and he said he doesnt even like her. so i hope she feels guilty as hell that i know now. just what do u think i should do? :'( i really need to know. i dont wana dump dillan and i dont want to hurt emily.

now dillan is talkin to his ex gf... should i be conserned?
 tdigirl posted over a year ago
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skytail127 said:
ok, it realy doesnt matter anymore who started it. what matters is your friend and your boy friend were sexting eachother. they both betrayed you and thats not cool. no good friend should try and steal your guy like that and no good boy friend should let her. if you realy feel the need to find out the whole storie sit them both down together. but realy id suggest dropping them both. you deserve better than them. they hurt you. and you shouldnt let people treat you like that.

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i alredy tried talkin 2 them both and now they hate eachother and im in the middle. but thx that helped
tdigirl posted over a year ago
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glad to help
skytail127 posted over a year ago
chocolate18 said:
well, even if it hurts to dump that guy, you should. he does'nt deserve your love and your bff never should have done that,if she didnt like it so much, she should have cried out. having no bf and bff is better than ones who dont treat you nice.besides, its not nice to mate before getting married.
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neofly said:
ok well heres what i say i know this girl may have started it but he didnt stop it ether so hes half as giulty. ok and the thing also is he might be talking tonhis ex because maybe scence hes struggling with u and having trouble with ur friend it because he wants be break up and doesnt know how to tell u. or maybe he wants advice from his ex. who knows. with this situation there are tons of things that can go on.i say take a break from ur bf and bff and let them think and let ur self think. you guys need to figure it out whats going down now. and no offense but i would be really mad at my friend for that she needs to get her priorities straight. i say well geeze just goood luck i cant even believe this im really sorry if u need to talk message me.
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