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Need some help with my friends.

Well, my birthday is in the middle of the summer holidays. It's just a few days away now.

My friends are great. I love them. But because of when my birthday is, everyone always forgets.

It's really not fair. I always make a massive effort to remember everyones birthdays and at least send a text if I can't see them. I'm worried they will forget again. And if they do that then I'll just be depressed.

So, I have two options right now

1. Remind them now that my birthday is coming up. But if I do this, I'll feel like they're only doing something because I reminded them, and whats the point of that?

2. Not remind them now, and have a better idea of who tries to remember this kind of thing. However, if no one does anything, I'll be upset.

What do you think I should do?
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I hate that, too. It's not very fair. How would they feel if we forgot theirs?
LoopyLuna96 posted over a year ago
 MissKnowItAll posted over a year ago
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evviefoxx said:
Well, if you want to assure that you get a pat on the back for your birthday, let them know. Some people are just forgetful and I doubt they'd do it on purpose if they seriously are your friends and love you as well. Loving your friends mean being able to forgive the little things and take a look at the bigger picture. Besides, if you tell them about it, you're most likely to get a present.
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Thank you for answering.
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katana64 said:
people forget my birthday all the time even though its during the school year, i just dont make a big deal about it, they feel just as bad about forgetting your birthday as you do
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skytail127 posted over a year ago
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Ok. Thank you.
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