Exactly, I feel the same. I mean, if someone leaves you because they can't accept something about your mental health then it's not really a loss in my eyes.
And your blogs are so pretty! I'll look into them. And I love your drawings. I recently got an ipad pro and I try to draw (not very good at it still. But I'm trying lol)
What are your career paths? I love it when people know what they want to do in their lives, it's a hard decision for most people.
Posted over a year ago
And omg yayyy! I'm happy you like them too. I'm pretty much obsessed with this ship xD It's the most popular ship the the AoT franchise, but it does have its haters. I'm been somewhat harassed by two users here because of it. But I'll always love it, there's something about them together that I just can't get over, they're so adorable.over a year ago
I used to be very shy about my problems. I have OCD that I've tried to hide for years because I was afraid people will shy away from me because of it, but then slowly I started to talk about it to people I was close to because I believed in them even if I was still a afraid.
Right now I'm open about my OCD to almost everyone and honestly no one has ever left or stopped talking to me because of it.
Posted over a year ago
I figured that if anyone ever will, that just means that they can't accept a very large aspect of my life and that means they're not worth my time xDover a year ago
Can I see your tumblr? I have tumblr as well though mine is all for ereri, as you can see it's my obsession lmao~ But I'd like to see yours.over a year ago
Tbh it'd be wonderful if you'd work at this field. You have a talent for this, I can tell it by your positivity and they open way you talk about it. I really admire this.over a year ago
This is a very positive way to look at things! I'm trying to be more positive about myself as well, I've also been through some shit I shouldn't have to go through lol. I'm trying to learn to keep things in the past where they should be. You'll probably go to heaven I swaer lol. Thank you so much!over a year ago
No problem ~ This is such an important subject. I have gone through a lot of mental health issues so I understand this personally. I'm happy someone talks about it here ^^
Posted over a year ago
Hey Riku! I haven't told you that but I really enjoy reading your comments on everything. You talk about important subjects ~ We don't talk often but you seen like a very nice person :D Props for all your great contributions 🌻
Posted over a year ago
Honestly, side rant, but I really dislike the fandom idea and view towards "traps". From time to time I guess its fair if the character was like... legit intended to trick the audience, but like... way too often do I see people responding to a legit trans character that shows all signs of ACTUALLY identifying or wanting to identify with the gender they present as by calling them a trap or feeling "betrayed" or "tricked" by the knowledge that they aren't an "actual girl/boy"
Posted over a year ago
Like seriously it is just kinda gross and of bad taste to treat a character that clearly identifies with the gender they present as like a "trap" that is just trying to be creepy or weird or trick guys into liking them or lying or like... whatever. Like really, does a character have to have the main known trait they are described as be "trap" the second you find out that they don't have the same genitalia (or even in some cases, they NOW do but didn't) compared to that of what they present as? Like some characters can have so much soldi content to their personality, they could be sweet, sassy, full of depth, known for their aesthetic, and then the SECOND the fandom hears that they weren't always female or they have a dick the whole fandom 180s and forgets about it / throws the character asside and labels it a TRAPover a year ago
Like I normally just twitch an eyebrow and move on cause bitching about it wont change much since the anime community is the anime community and society has made traps a meme and bitching about it won't change how people act and I dont want to be >that< guy but honestly I'm kinda fed up with it as the last two games / series I've been through have had trans characters - VERY OBVIOUS TRANS CHARACTERS - just full on disregarded as "traps" by people and the fandomover a year ago
Sweet P from Caligula CLEARLY identifies as female and CLEARLY would want to have a sex change and do so in the real world but conditions, relationships, and her physical condition wouldn't let it in the real world - but no - trap, a trickster, a gross liar. Lukako has went into DETAIL about how badly she wants to be a girl. She makes her one wish to be a girl when given the chance. She hates and wouldn't want to go back. But ya know, just a trap againover a year ago
Even if a character ISNT trans, what is the problem with them wanting to express themselves in one way or the next. Honestly all power to them imo as it shows that they are comfortable with who they are and want to present it that way. Honestly I just really am not a fan of all this like... "trickster" "liar" "betrayer" like... air around characters that don't appear clearly male or female or what they "should" look like.over a year ago
Honestly my distaste yet lack of will to comment on it has kinda been disturbed with just how frequently I see peopel jsut completely forget 95% of the character the second they come otu as a "trap" and suddenly close off a lot of serious discussion about them after finding outover a year ago
Honestly I like to respect Abramic religion and those that believe in it, but one of the things I hate about religion that has lasted with me from going to church every weekend for the first 7 or so years of my life is that whole idea of "Purity" and sexual restraint that it so heavily puts onto you.
Of course it combines with a lot of personal bad experiences, but Abrhamic religions go on and act as if anyone who isnt a virigin (especially women) are worthless, unwanted, and have no value
Posted over a year ago
Like Im a notorious not-religious person that kinda really has a distaste for organized and controlling religious practices, but I am alright with moderated religion as long as the person who believes in it doesn't hurt anyone or shove it down others throatsover a year ago
Also depends on which church you go to tbh. For example my pastor was a divorced woman with children for the first several years at our church before she remarried, and I think we've had more than one unmarried couple with children attend. We also have an ex-convict as a staff member. As far as I'm aware no one really cares about any of that, and that's pretty "impure" lol. We don't even really talk about sex, it's more of a "you do what you think is right for you" mentality. I understand your perspective and I agree with you about indoctrination and purity culture, I'm just saying left-leaning churches are a thing as well.over a year ago
I stopped associating myself with Christianity. Cleary because of the "love everyone" rhetoric. It's not that I don't love, but some people just can't be loved.over a year ago