Twilight Series Article: bella's Pain??? How do you feell.... please comment!

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bella's Pain??? How do you feell.... please comment!

posted by surfen_cutie09

ok, i know she loves both but its probably ovious who she loves more, but im not sure is it edward or jacob.

i think that if she chooses edward like she did in eclipse, there will be pain for not being with jake, but she already went through not being with edward and it almost killed her, and at the end of elcipse she had pain but it wasnt as bad. like she said when edward asked her,
" are you sure you made the right choice, i have never seen you in so much pain"
and she says "I have known worse pain"
does that mean, the worse pain was when edward left her

does anyone get what im trying to ask, if not ill try to explain better

Cas_Cat_2, ceo07 and 2 others like this

surfen_cutie09 yeaa explain

sage_cullen I think it would

cheergeek Duh she loves Edward more. I wish it wasn't that way, but it is. Sometimes I think I'm the only one who thinks that Edward is the obvious answer. I don't give my team enough credit.

shortynme When she said she's known more pain, yes it was when Edward left her. She loves Jacob, but she loved Edward more. You would really understand how she feels if you've ever been in love with two people. Trust me, from experiance I can say, IT'S NOT EASY!!!!

midnight_love I think that the love she feels for Jacob is different than that of her love for Edward . She has passion with Edward where as with Jacob it is more of a "safety" love . I hope you understand what i mean when i say that .

Lunatic (Here's what I posted in the comments to my own article:) Eclipse is my least favourite, which means I'm only mildly obsessed with it. I agree that Jacob needs to imprint and find his own girl (or if he chooses, his own guy), but I still like Jacob. He just has big problems. I think Bella does love Edward more. (A lot more.) Although since her love of Edward is possibly the truest of true loves, that doesn't mean she doesn't love Jacob with enough power to light up all of Washington. It just means it isn't enough to overpower her love of Edward, which (since I already used the electricity metophor) could light up all of Earth and then some. We know Bella truly loves Edward by in New Moon when he leaves. Bella doesn't act like a teenager who just broke up with her boyfriend, she acts like a grieving widow who just lost her husband and soul mate. Everything changes and Bella stops doing so much that she used to enjoy just because the pain of remembering him is too strong that it kills her everytime. Bella truly, deeply loves Edward. Bella truly loves Jacob. He fixed (well... attempted) her when she was completely broken inside and outside. Nothing was right and everything was wrong, yet he was there. While everyone stared at her like she was insane or waiting for her to prove that she was insane, he didn't. For that, who wouldn't love Jacob? Yet, Edward comes back as we (almost) all had hoped. Even with Jacob there helping us all feel better, nothing beats having an Edward. Bella knows this, so when it comes down to choosing she never really had to think about it. Jacob was (almost) always there for her and she loves him for it, yet Edward is Edward (sorry, but I don't think there is an adjective that fits Edward quite right). Bella can't not pick Edward. He was her first and strongest love. Ever heard that you'll always love your first love? Well, thats how it is for Bella. She can't not love him and she can not live without him. As great as Jacob is, he could never fix the hole left by Edward (although try he did). It was too big and refused to give in. That hole was much bigger than the hole that was made by Jacob. In both New Moon and Eclipse Bella says goodbye to Jacob (first when he joined the pack, and then when she picks Edward), but Edward leaving her was always more painful. In Eclipse she cries and in New Moon she is stunned. In New Moon when Edward leaves she breaks down so much that she can't even cry or think about it without breaking down again. The only time she can't hide from her (what to call it? It's more than depression or sadness) death (I can't find a word that fits better) is when she sleep, in which she screams and cries. In conclusion (I think I went on a little too long), Bella loves Edward more. ~ And in response to your other questions: I have known worse pain = New Moon chapter 2 (aka, Edward leaving) And also, no matter who she picked, there would be pain. She does love them both, so she wants to be with them both and not have to refuse either of them. Even when she had made her choice, there was still a part of her that wanted to stay with Jacob forever and make him forget she ever doubting that staying with him was the best choice. But she couldn't do that.

pd12389 I THINK THAT SHE SHOULD PICK JACOB CAUSE HE BETTER IN ANY WAY BUT EDWARD IS GREAT TOO BUT WANT BLOOD THAT ALL SO WHO IS SHE GOING TO PICK THE VAMPIRE OR THE WEREWOLF ? ? ? ? WE WILL SEE SOON............

ANNiE_aKa_BeLLa WELL EDWARDS IS LEARNING TO CONTROL THIS VERY VERY WELL ... & WHEN HE GETS MAD.. IT'S HARD 4 HIM 2 STAY THAT WAY AT BELLA..LOL..! & JAKE..NO FENCE 2 ANY 1 ...BUT I THINK THAT OK...IF EDWARD DID NOT EXIST *THANK GOD HE'S AT LEAST FICTIONAL* THEN JAKE WOULD HAVE MOST LIKELY ENDED UP WITH HER.. POOR MIKE... ANYWAYS .. EDWARD DOES EXIST .. OR AT LEAST IN THE BOOK..SO NO MATTER WHAT BELLA WILL ALWAYS BE ADDICTED TO HIM JUST LIKE HE IS TO HER! SO THERE...LOL..! ~ANDREA ISABELLA~

funnyshawna think that she loves edward more but that she loves jacob almostas much, mostly because he got her through new moon when edward left (which is part of the reason why i like jacob better than edward).