I just don't get it with bella!

on the contrary, i think she uses Jacob. As much as I hate Jacob sometimes, he doesn't deserve that. No one does. She toys with his emotions, not that he doesn't do that too, but she flirted with him in twilight to get information about Edward, in New Moon, she needed him but used him to help her through her separation with Edward, and in Eclipse, well, he was the one who was the jerk. But overall, she used him alot to be quite honest and that bugged me. But, the bright side, when she used Jacob, the reason was because of Edward. I'm an Edward fan, but like I said, no one really deserves to be used. It made me mad, not that she used him, but more along the lines of her getting what she wanted all the time.

I understand Bella's attitude about the whole vampire thing. She really loves this guy and she wants to be with him forever but, unlike a normal relationship where people can grow old together, she'd be getting old while he stayed frozen at 17 year old perfection. Eventually it would look like he were dating his mother and then even his grandmother! Besides, the Cullen family seems to be perfect. Wouldn't you want in on that too?

That's not even what got me,
It's her saying no when edward asked her to marry him.
She was so into the idea of damning her soul and being with him for eternity, but she said no to marrying him?
Didn't make any sense to me.

And Bella really did get everything she wanted just handed to her.
It kind of made me mad.
And the way she used Jacob, like they said above ^^

she wants 2 become a vampire 2 be with him or equel 2 him

your so right