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Do you find it disturbing that alot 12 and 13 yrs ask questions like "who is hotter? who is sexier?"

Do you find it disturbing that alot 12 and 13 yrs ask questions like "who is hotter? who is sexier?"
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Please no one take offense to this question....I just think that 10 11 12 13 14 15 is alittle too young to be calling someone else hot and sexy...to me ...it implies that you've had sex and at that age it is really too young....I am just looking for intelligent conversation and answers...I am not attacking anyone or trying to control anyone...no one needs to be so defensive.
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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mandapanda said:
First of all, I love you. For this question and for being you. haha

When someone calls someone "sexy" it doesn't necessarily mean that they have had sex. "Sexy" is just a term used to describe someone in this day and age. The definition? Well, there's many. But I don't think calling someone "sexy" means they had sex.

But I do agree with what you said about sex. Young kids should not be thinking about having sex. Sex is called "making love". I don't think younger kids have experienced enough in the world to actually love someone. Granted, some teenagers can love each other, but sex was originally meant for man and wife. And my beliefs agree with that. Though, society manipulates and that original meaning has been buried by the media.

And, I touched on this a little in my article that I wrote yesterday. The "hot/sexy/omgosh abs!" Lol I hate promoting, but if you want to read it, it's here (link)

And... it's annoying, heck yes. Disturbing... I can understand what you are saying. Kids verging on becoming a teen or young teenagers shouldn't be so caught up on people's bodies. It's fine that kids find people attractive. I've had crushes too. When I was younger and right now. But just... the thought of pre-teens having that mindset, the image of guys with their shirts off, it's inappropriate. I can understand how that would be disturbing.

However, we can't put the blame on them. Society is also to blame. The image society is promoting as "beautiful" by having a toned body and flawless skin is also weighing on younger kids today. Teenagers, even adults. It doesn't matter what size you are, or what color you are. The inside is what counts. We're all beautifully and wonderfully made. And you should be liked for who you are. Not what you look like. Because that fades.

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posted over a year ago 
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I love you too...I think I was alittle freaked out because my little sister call Jacob hot..and had just stay with me all day.....thanks for bringing me down alittle. And once again...best answer.
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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You're welcome :) and Oh I know. I have a younger sister who is about to turn 13. It's weird having a younger sibling entering "that stage" in life. So I can relate :)
mandapanda posted over a year ago
Summer_Leanne said:
Yes and no. When they ask it, it simply gets annoying...because they repeatedly post the same questions over and over again. They're all the same, "JAKE'S SEXIER!" "NO! EDWARD IS, and HE's MINE!" "OMG! LOOK AT EDWARD! I'M GOING TO DIE FROM HIS GLOWING BEAUTY!"..."OMG!!!!!!!! JACOB BLACK TOOK HIS SHIRT OFF! EVERYONE FAINT!" Yeah. Annoying.
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posted over a year ago 
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Totally agree
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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haha yeah
lauracullen66 posted over a year ago
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You Can Check What It If You Must!
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
r-pattz said:
No, not at all. Believe it or not, we kids ARE interested in the opposite sex as well.
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posted over a year ago 
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HaHa! Particualry Robert Pattinson For Me! :)
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
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LOL yea :D!!!<3
Michelle-Bieber posted over a year ago
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Thats true...but what I'm asking is...do people of that age know what 'hot and sexy' really mean? What does it mean to you?
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
RpattzGrl said:
no
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shivers-zimmy said:
Nope! I Am 13! I Don't Repeatedly Ask The Same Questions Over And Over Again! Sorry If Others Do, But You'll Find I'm Not Like Most Kids My Age! And I Think Because Of This, I Have A Right To Say What I Want! I Can Word It However I Want Too!

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posted over a year ago 
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How did I offend you? I was merely asking if it was distrubing...I have a younger sister who is 12 and to me I'm like "do you really know what hot and sexy is?" It just seems alittle young to me. And this is nothing to "get over" I was simply asking a question...and no one said you didnt have the right to say anything...calm down.
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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Well, You Didn't Technically Offend Me! The Answers To Your Question Got Me Going Though! So Actually It's Not You-Sorry!
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
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i totally agree with u and i am thirteen and i have my own mind aswell and i can thik whos hot and whos not
emilyj12 posted over a year ago
missing_99 said:
Yes and no.Because they ask it so much that it really does get annoying.But just because they're young it doesn't mean they can't be attracted to people.Even characters.What I don't like, is when people basically pretend to be Twilight fans.

That they like it because it's popular, or because of Jacob and Edward.And then when it all dies down they quit liking it.Some of them are like that; not all.
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posted over a year ago 
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Nicely said.
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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FINALLY some one who understands!!! THANX
Dantetylerrr posted over a year ago
lauracullen66 said:
i think its fine for them to think that rob and taylor are attractive but i think that the 10/11/12 year olds that are saying "they're so sexy OMG i wanna marry/make out/sleep with/date etc them"- the actors- is a bit far, rob is 24 after all- little inappropriate

my cousin is 11 and i cant imagine her thinking about them in that way- not yet anyway.
It must get a little uncomfortable for them(rob and taylor) sometimes.

just my opinion :)
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Yeah!
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
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Yeah most definelty I have a younger sister and she think that these men are hot . I think that they are not a little inappropriate but VERY inappropriate for their minds.
Dantetylerrr posted over a year ago
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Thanks great answer....
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
Dantetylerrr said:
Yes I think that it is very AWKWARD for 12 and 13 year olds to be saying "Who is hotter? Who is sexier?" I think that its weird because since they are still young they think that these people are hot but wait until they get older they will look back and think "what the heck was I thinking?"
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emilyj12 said:
i am 13 and i can think who is hotter or who is sexier if i want to and i think were not to young cause if it was like 9 and 10 year olds i would under stand but its not and we are in are teens now and we are in high school and we can think what we want and actually we are not annoyin cause actually most of us dont repeat are selfs and make a big fuss so yer no!!!
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...you're not in high school. You're now entering or leaving the 7th grade, which is middle school...sorry to burst your bubble ;) You have a year or two to go
Summer_Leanne posted over a year ago
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To me...when someone says that someone else is hot and sexy...its because they "know" what hot and sexy is...meaning that they've probably had sex...thats all I'm getting at. (and I'm totally not saying this to be mean but if you dont want people to think you are too 'young' then spelling correctly is major..and again I'm not saying that to be mean...just trying to help you out...)
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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Well, I think it hassomething to do with the media and press, actually... Magazines, tv shows, etc... There's a LOT of hots and sexys everywhere you go. And you know teenagers do want to look older, or something like that, so it's "natural" that they would repeat what they hear other people saying. I think that's it, but I don't think is a bif deal at all. I think the problem is that some people take the meaning of some words diferently from others. I'm sure the marjority of them aren't trying to say they had sex when tey say someone is hot/sexy.
Luh_ posted over a year ago
Emmalie1935 said:
not really, but when they ask the same questions over and over again it gets on my nerves. like 'team edward or team jacob'. 'OHMYGOD JACOB' it annoys me...
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Michelle-Bieber said:
Im 13 and me and my friends always talk like that and say things like "OMG isn't he so hot"or "he is so sexy" if it was a girl under 11 or even younger ok maybe it would be a little disturbing but still now a days alot of girls talk like that I personally think it doesn't mean you have to be haveing sex or anything like that it's just the way people think now :)!!!<3
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ilovemusic29 said:
no not really......
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Luh_ said:
I get what you are asking, and I won't simply answer yes or no. I don't see anything wrong with a teenager saying someone is hot or sexy, because at this phase almost everything to almost everyone has something to do with looks. We can't generalize that something is wrong for everyone, because people are actualy different from each other, so for some it is wrong, and for others is just normal. It depends on the person really, if the teenager is mature enough, things like that. I agree it's really annoying when people ask the same question about who's hotter 1000 times, and it gets on my nerves too. But when people answer something, and then say they think the character is hot, good looking, whatever, they are expressing their opinion or even trying to sound witty and fun. So if they are talking about the look, I can't see a problem, but when I read a 12 yrs saying she would like to help Damon with his pants, for example, THIS makes me feel a little uneasy. But, again, it depends a lot on te person we're taking about.
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I see your point.
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
Emo_Tastic said:
Well im 13 n i hate it when my friends start argruin about that.. "Jake is Sexxier", "NO EDWARD IS !" Does it really matter ! Gosh... There both sexxciie.. So eigther way its a win win deal. l0l
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posted over a year ago 
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lol
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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l0lzx.. Its true... Then i get stuck in d middle of it... "Team Switzerland" :]
Emo_Tastic posted over a year ago
zanesaaomgfan said:
I'm 13. I am sure as hell not to young to be calling them that. And isn't it ovbious that half of Fanpop is 13, 12, 11 and younger?

Also, notice that its people OLDER then that who ask that. Its annoying yeah but not disturbing. This is disturbing,

"JACOB! OMJ! HES SOO HOT! EDWARD'S NOT! I WANNA F*** HIM!"



Thats disturbing.
I have to go through that everyday on this spot. Even my family says thats disturbing.
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l0l... My family does the same !
Emo_Tastic posted over a year ago
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