First of all, I love you. For this question and for being you. haha
When someone calls someone "sexy" it doesn't necessarily mean that they have had sex. "Sexy" is just a term used to describe someone in this day and age. The definition? Well, there's many. But I don't think calling someone "sexy" means they had sex.
But I do agree with what you said about sex. Young kids should
not be thinking about having sex. Sex is called "making love". I don't think younger kids have experienced enough in the world to actually love someone. Granted, some teenagers can love each other, but sex was originally meant for man and wife. And my beliefs agree with that. Though, society manipulates and that original meaning has been buried by the media.
And, I touched on this a little in my article that I wrote yesterday. The "hot/sexy/omgosh abs!" Lol I hate promoting, but if you want to read it, it's here (
link)
And... it's annoying, heck yes. Disturbing... I can understand what you are saying. Kids verging on becoming a teen or young teenagers shouldn't be so caught up on people's bodies. It's fine that kids find people attractive. I've had crushes too. When I was younger and right now. But just... the thought of pre-teens having that mindset, the image of guys with their shirts off, it's inappropriate. I can understand how that would be disturbing.
However, we can't put the blame on them. Society is also to blame. The image society is promoting as "beautiful" by having a toned body and flawless skin is also weighing on younger kids today. Teenagers, even adults. It doesn't matter what size you are, or what color you are. The inside is what counts. We're all beautifully and wonderfully made. And you should be liked for
who you are. Not what you look like. Because that fades.