Let me put this very, very carefully so that you can clearly understand.
NO. Emphatically no! It is not wrong at all.
Sexuality is an insanely complicated thing. I'd estimate that three out of four people have questioned their sexuality at least once in their life. It may even be more than that. And just because you're questioning it does not mean that you're gay, it just means that you aren't 100% straight, and that is OKAY! You should never be ashamed of your sexuality.
Dr. Alfred Kinsey was an expert in sex and sexuality. He theorized that every human being - gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, intersex - everyone fell on a sliding sexuality scale. Or, in other words, that few people were 100% gay or straight, and the majority actually fell somewhere on the continuum in between those two extremes. Even more simplified, everyone is, to an extent, bisexual.
He devised the link as a representation of the sexuality continuum. The fact that you are questioning your sexuality just means that you are in the majority of the population.
If you really want to know about your sexuality, explore it. Consider it. Think about it. Try it. If anything, it will help you know and understand yourself better, even if you decide you prefer men to women (or vice versa!)
My best advice to you is to keep an open mind. If you like a girl, and she seems to like you, don't run away from it. Experience it. See how much you like (or don't like) it. It will help you get a firmer grasp on who you are and what kind of person you will be happier with in a relationship, and these are very important things to know!
NO. Emphatically no! It is not wrong at all.
Sexuality is an insanely complicated thing. I'd estimate that three out of four people have questioned their sexuality at least once in their life. It may even be more than that. And just because you're questioning it does not mean that you're gay, it just means that you aren't 100% straight, and that is OKAY! You should never be ashamed of your sexuality.
Dr. Alfred Kinsey was an expert in sex and sexuality. He theorized that every human being - gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, intersex - everyone fell on a sliding sexuality scale. Or, in other words, that few people were 100% gay or straight, and the majority actually fell somewhere on the continuum in between those two extremes. Even more simplified, everyone is, to an extent, bisexual.
He devised the link as a representation of the sexuality continuum. The fact that you are questioning your sexuality just means that you are in the majority of the population.
If you really want to know about your sexuality, explore it. Consider it. Think about it. Try it. If anything, it will help you know and understand yourself better, even if you decide you prefer men to women (or vice versa!)
My best advice to you is to keep an open mind. If you like a girl, and she seems to like you, don't run away from it. Experience it. See how much you like (or don't like) it. It will help you get a firmer grasp on who you are and what kind of person you will be happier with in a relationship, and these are very important things to know!
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