what do u do when u feel like having sex but u know ur really not ready to

When your in the shower, go on your hands and feet (so our stomic is facing up) and put your pussy under the water. The water pressure has to be hard-ish.

Yes masturbating, before loosing virginity, during marriage, and after, (when that certain urge hits). I believe it is normal. The body needs release physically at times, and I am not referring to dwelling on lustful thoughts. Sure you can shift your thoughts and attention away from anything remotely "sexual" or "lustful" but that doesn't always do the trick even focusing on a movie, or cooking... You do not have to have sex to rub or use a finger privately to stimulate your body parts and climax where and when you feel safe and comfortable that is private to give that release.

We tell guys to take a COLD shower!

I focus my attention onto something else.

yur body sometimes gives u a signal that you want 2 have sex and thats normal,because your growing up.but in your heart,you know your not ready.i have found that its best 2 always follow what your heart is telling u because its ussually right.when the time comes,your heart and your body will both agree on it,then the time will be right.this is what i have told my children when they were growing up.take it slow.theres plenty of time 4 sex later on.good luck.

To be perfectly frank, you can pleasure yourself. There's nothing wrong with that, and after all, if you don't know what you like, no one else will. There are books that are aimed at adolescents, such as "It's Perfectly Normal", that contain non-judgmental info about sexuality and growing up.

Congrats on being aware that there is a difference between being sexual and being sexually active. There really is no need to rush into things.

actually u should just tell ur best friend i mean if u r comfortable vut my question is where is a goo place to do sex. (even i am only 13)

Masturbate or use a dildo. To me those are the best choices.