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is this good? or bad?

i'm only elevan, and i want to have sex with someone

and he's my ex
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Me too strange huh?
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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but,you have to wait anyway
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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Cinders said:
It's not wrong to WANT to have sex.

I would STRONGLY ADVISE AGAINST acting on those desires. For so many reasons... Seriously. You literally have decades ahead of you, at least nine times the life you've already lived, and I know that feels like a long way away, but when you're old enough, mature enough, wise enough, sex is just better. So don't waste your childhood on bad sex. Spend it with friends, watching TV, laughing at really silly immature jokes.

That being said, I don't know you, I don't judge you. But seriously, I really think you should hold out for better options. For more than just the reasons I've stated. Also, standard safe sex fare - condoms, birth control, gynocologist, std screening. Get them ALL.

If I may ask, how old is the boyfriend?
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posted over a year ago 
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same age
RandomOne posted over a year ago
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he is EX boyfriend
RandomOne posted over a year ago
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Generally, no matter what your age, having sex with an ex boyfriend is a bad idea. Although, I am assuaged that your boyfriend is not older than you. I stand by my advice to not do anything sexually until you are much older.
Cinders posted over a year ago
boolander25 said:
You're 11 and you've already had a boyfriend? You seem a little young to be feeling these things, and yes, while I may be only a few years older, 11 isn't really mature enough to be the age of having sex.
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posted over a year ago 
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what's wrong with the boyfriend part? most of us start dating when we're in fouth grade
RandomOne posted over a year ago
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I didn't and I know quite a few people who didn't either. Really, you should only stat dating until high school, when you can be a bit more mature with your decisions (kinda).
boolander25 posted over a year ago
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CornChips posted over a year ago
Cherry9090 said:
its not bad but its very young i think u need to wait.
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Hellohoudini said:
No its not a bad thing...but I think it would be a bad mistake to act on it...you are way to young to have sex...even at 16 or 17 its too early...but of youre are determined to go thru with it...make sure you are safe and MAKE SURE HE WEARS A CONDOM. ....and dont forget...its ok to say No. :)
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rantora13 said:
I say no,its prob just hormones,and they may pass. Tho I can't tell u what to do,all I say is don't rush things,its fine to say no,wear protection. But I say ur alil young why not wait awhile until u feel more confident with ur desicions.
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xgirl101 said:
please wait...enjoy ur youth,wegrow up 2 fast, go make paper airplanes and play onteh monkeybars... besides at ur age he won't be any good. wait
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Lawli-gagger said:
IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE READY, go for it.
When it all boils down to it, you will be responsible for you...not anyone else.
BUT KNOW WHAT THEY CONSEQUENCES AND REPERCUSSIONS ARE BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING.
Also, don't just throw your innocence away just because....
I would say give yourself MORE TIME but if you are ready, I mean really ready, then do it.
Do you have an older family member, mentor or friend to talk to about this kind of thing?
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