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My husband and I only have sex once every four to six weeks. the last time we had sex, he lasted longer than ever and still did not cum... is he having sex else where?
I have been married before, he has not.
his sex life before me consisted of one night stands in the parking lot of bars.
I have been very sexual and open and exploratory.
I want him to make love rather than just screw and he takes that as a put down. Its like all he wants is something cheap and easy and that aint me.
I have done everything to spice up our "sex life" from trying to talk to him (pointless) to planning sexy outtings, having sex in public places, making sexy pics for him, and introducing him to toys... nothing has worked. He is a creature of habit and does everything the same way every time.
He says he is tired. He has been diagnosed with a thyroid problem which is now under control. He also has low T but wont do anything about it. He says sex isnt everything yet I have caught him hitting on other women and lying to me about looking at porn on his office computer. Divorce is not an option--- I cant have an affair, I just dont have it in me. I almost wish I did. Im so lonely and frustrated. Masterbation isnt enough for me!! The best sex Ive had in years was the masterbation I did when making the sexy pics for him and still all that does is wet my appetite for real sex!!!
his sex life before me consisted of one night stands in the parking lot of bars.
I have been very sexual and open and exploratory.
I want him to make love rather than just screw and he takes that as a put down. Its like all he wants is something cheap and easy and that aint me.
I have done everything to spice up our "sex life" from trying to talk to him (pointless) to planning sexy outtings, having sex in public places, making sexy pics for him, and introducing him to toys... nothing has worked. He is a creature of habit and does everything the same way every time.
He says he is tired. He has been diagnosed with a thyroid problem which is now under control. He also has low T but wont do anything about it. He says sex isnt everything yet I have caught him hitting on other women and lying to me about looking at porn on his office computer. Divorce is not an option--- I cant have an affair, I just dont have it in me. I almost wish I did. Im so lonely and frustrated. Masterbation isnt enough for me!! The best sex Ive had in years was the masterbation I did when making the sexy pics for him and still all that does is wet my appetite for real sex!!!
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