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Parents don't understand my love for Michael Jackson?????

So my parents thinks i go over board with michael.. But I don't like i told them there are BIGGER fans out there than me, and my dad is like well those ppl are crazy ! him and my mom says sooooo many things that frustrates me.. they think I idolize Michael its just i look up to him.. i dont worship him any advice ??? will get props for best answers thanx <3
Parents don't understand my love for Michael Jackson?????
 diamond6017 posted over a year ago
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liberiangirl_mj said:
Hey, you're not the only one here.. Since I became a fan, when I was around 11-12 years old and untill now, my family never understood me, never understood my love for Michael.
Obssession, craziness.. without mentioning the bad words regarding Michael, all this hurted me a lot, but I always got over it when I looked at his pictures, listening his music and watching his videos. I never wait for people who doesn't even know what the word "fan" means, who were never fans of anyone, to understand me. They're blind and that's their problem, not mine.
I remembered that someone said "In the world there are 2 categories of people: the MJ fans and the losers"!!! :))
So true!! I feel blessed to be a MJ fan, I feel so blessed to have discovered him, his music, his dance, his purity, his love..
Your love for him is in your heart, you know better what's there and you don't need anyone to tell you how to feel.
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Hey, you're not the only one here..  Since I became a fan, when I was around 11-12 years old and untill now, my family never understood me, never understood my love for Michael.
Obssession, craziness.. without mentioning the bad words regarding Michael, all this hurted me a lot, but I always got over it when I looked at his pictures, listening his music and watching his videos. I never wait for people who doesn't even know what the word "fan" means, who were never fans of anyone, to understand me. They're blind and that's their problem, not mine.
I remembered that someone said "In the world there are 2 categories of people: the MJ fans and the losers"!!! :)) 
So true!! I feel blessed to be a MJ fan, I feel so blessed to have discovered him, his music, his dance, his purity, his love.. 
Your love for him is in your heart, you know better what's there and you don't need anyone to tell you how to feel.
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Best answer!:* I love what you wrote here!
mjpeterpan7 posted over a year ago
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darling , if u really are a true MJ fan u will never stop supporting his legacy .. i support MJ in facebook , twitter , tumblr ,youtube,FANPOP and everywhere else ...so they should that "fanatic " is just a medal from fanpop and it doesn't mean that ur a true fan ... well , like XxMJloverxX .. when i talked with her she told me that now she is a Lil GAYne's fan .. and she loved her much more than MJ .. thats bullshit ! -.-" and i remember that when she was leaving MJ fans did everything to stop her .. i bet that they didn't know that she was fake xP
HegiMjlover posted over a year ago
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You're totally right, a medal doesn't make us more or less fans than we are. Our love for him is in our hearts, this can't be measured. I don't know XxMJlover.. but I do know that there are many people around (and not only on fanpop) "pretending" that are fans - in fact, they don't know elementary things about MJ and they make confusion between liking someone and being a fan.
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cherl12345 said:
I'll be 39 this coming August and I'm still and "MJ" fan, and I don't pay any attention to what father says despite tge constant teasing I get from him, so don't feel rained on.
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I'll be 39 this coming August and I'm still and "MJ" fan, and I don't pay any attention to what father says despite tge constant teasing I get from him, so don't feel rained on.
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foreveraMJJFan said:
I say just ignore them. Yes i understand its hard to do but trust me you get use to it after a while. I was in your position once. I sadly was one of those who didnt really pay attention to michael when he was alive, but when he died i started watching his vids alot and buying mj stuff. I actually kept it hidden for awhile because almost everyone in my family hates michael and would always crack jokes about him. Since ive learn to ignore what they say about me being a fan and they have since stopped making jokes. My uncle actually gave me a michael jackson cd set this past christmas. Anyways, no matter what your family says you should be proud to be an mj fan, and and anything they say about him or about you being a fan shouldnt matter at all. I hope i helped you a little :)
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I say just ignore them. Yes i understand its hard to do but trust me you get use to it after a while. I was in your position once. I sadly was one of those who didnt really pay attention to michael when he was alive, but when he died i started watching his vids alot and buying mj stuff. I actually kept it hidden for awhile because almost everyone in my family hates michael and would always crack jokes about him. Since ive learn to ignore what they say about me being a fan and they have since stopped making jokes. My uncle actually gave me a michael jackson cd set this past christmas. Anyways, no matter what your family says you should be proud to be an mj fan, and and anything they say about him or about you being a fan shouldnt matter at all. I hope i helped you a little :)
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you're just like me
MJlover635 posted over a year ago
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thanx alot LOVE
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ilovemichael17 said:
the same things is going on with me like my mom and my friends don't understand my love either. Like mom freaks out when i get something that's michael jackson and say | oh you''re so obsessed with him and people who are obsessed are weird" like what's wrong with being obsessed it's not like it's hitler and if she finds me obsessing or whatever she'll take all my mj stuff. i tell her that they are bigger fans that are more crazier she doesn't listen. Second my friends one is like " you're gfoing to hell cuz you listen to him he's a satanist he sold his soul to the devil " and all that stuff and the other friend like " you're always like omg mj!" and " you're going to hell" and"he's dead get over it" like she used to be okay with me loving michael i wish they would stop dissing him.

My advice is to just ignore them or confort them i'm sorry you're parents don't understand your love to michael
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OMG!!! Just like my friends, they all say that!!!!
MJlover635 posted over a year ago
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ilovemichael17 posted over a year ago
HegiMjlover said:
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lol, Ur dad called me crazy ???
Well , tell him this from me :
-" U'r crazy , u don't let ur daughter free to love someone .. someone that all the world loves , Michael Jackson .. so u call me crazy one more time and I will kick ur ass off "
lol , ur free to tell him this ... ( i know u r not going to tell him xD) anyway ,,
I think that u shouldn't ignore ur parents xP
i think that u should fight with them :D
Tell'em that ur free to do whatever u want .. and to love everyone that ur a$$ like ..
actually, my dad told me once .. (when i met him at 3 am, I never see him cuz he is always working -.-" )
he saw that i was listening to mj and not sleeping ... he said that he was going to do something to stop me .. And i told him :"Dad , u know .. I love Mj more than u and no one is going to stop my love for him "
he got angry and we never talked about it again ^^
i know that if my mom would be alive she wouldn't let this happen but there's nothing that u can do ... u have to support MJ , even if u cant deal with ur parents,,

**dont take the picture**
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lol, Ur dad called me crazy ???
Well , tell him this from me : 
-" U'r crazy , u don't let ur daughter free to love someone .. someone that all the world loves , Michael Jackson .. so u call me crazy one more time and I will kick ur ass off " 
lol , ur free to tell him this ... ( i know u r not going to tell him xD) anyway ,,
I think that u shouldn't ignore ur parents xP
i think that u should fight with them :D
Tell'em that ur free to do whatever u want .. and to love everyone that ur a$$ like .. 
actually, my dad told me once .. (when i met him at 3 am, I never see him cuz he is always working -.-" )
he saw that i was listening to mj and not sleeping ... he said that he was going to do something to stop me .. And  i told him :"Dad , u know .. I love Mj more than u and no one is going to stop my love for him "
he got angry and we never talked about it again ^^
i know that if my mom would be alive she wouldn't let this happen but there's nothing that u can do ... u have to support MJ , even if u cant deal with ur parents,, 

**dont take the picture**
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thrillerlady11 said:
My grandma is the same way I'm 2 young 2 be in love with a 50 old man he's old enough 2 be my dad but, I don't cared what she says and my sister 2 so f**k them. It's my choice 2 like whatever i like and I feel the same 4 u. My grandma and sister both hurt me so I'm tired of mj or do u listen 2 anything elase beside michael.
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u rockkkk
HegiMjlover posted over a year ago
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forget them
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Fashionista101 said:
like everyone else, even liberiangirl_mj and i.
I, too, am a mj fan, even before his death. When he died, i became so obsessed with mj. I've been called the same things, but you know what? people have the craziest things to say about anything, even our parents, but you shouldn't care about what thinks about mj.
People don't understand about Michael Jackson. They can be so freakin' ignorant about him. Everyday, you learn something new about him.
Michael said it himself, I'm just like anyone. I cut and I bleed. And I embarass easily.
I'M PROUD TO BE A MJ FAN!!!
Eleanor Roosevelt said, 'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.'
For more of his quotes, here's the link,
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lovergirl343 said:
i think that u should just tell them how u feel about him that's what i did michael is awesome i i'd love to even marry him even though i'm 9 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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