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Im so sad......

I'm losing my bestfriends because they find out..that I'm a fan of MJ.....they say "omg! u in love with a deadman"..."Just let him go and move on". I say " I can't.. and they laugh.....I don't understand why ppl got a problem with me loving MJ...
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I deserve MJ love!!
jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
 jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
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MJpixy said:
I'm not loosing friends but sometimes my grandma tells me that I'm in love with a dead man and that it isn't normal and my mother and her mother,my other grandmother,and my mother's sister asked me why I like MJ?Why don't I like Madonna,or Smiley(a singer from my country)?Or any other artist who is alive?And I told her that if MJ is the best why should I like others?And I always tell to people if they ask me that I like MJ,they look at me,but then they're ok with it,'cuz they understand that everyone has a favorite person,but some are looking at me like I'm some kind of a freak,which annoys me and makes me angry,lucky I can't be angry at someone more than 5 minutes and I don't scream or punch people!:p :)) But anyway,my point is that,people can't understand us becasue they're not like us and they don't want to understand us!God said:"Search and you will find!",and it's a true thing,it happened to me too!So,now it's the time for you to find out who's your friend and who's not!And don't forget:you'll always have us!;)(hug)
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I'm not loosing friends but sometimes my grandma tells me that I'm in love with a dead man and that it isn't normal and my mother and her mother,my other grandmother,and my mother's sister asked me why I like MJ?Why don't I like Madonna,or Smiley(a singer from my country)?Or any other artist who is alive?And I told her that if MJ is the best why should I like others?And I always tell to people if they ask me that I like MJ,they look at me,but then they're ok with it,'cuz they understand that everyone has a favorite person,but some are looking at me like I'm some kind of a freak,which annoys me and makes me angry,lucky I can't be angry at someone more than 5 minutes and I don't scream or punch people!:p :)) But anyway,my point is that,people can't understand us becasue they're not like us and they don't want to understand us!God said:"Search and you will find!",and it's a true thing,it happened to me too!So,now it's the time for you to find out who's your friend and who's not!And don't forget:you'll always have us!;)(hug)
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Wow. that's very well written. and btw, I advise you not to come to the US and go to PA where I live, some people are just mean and there have been tons of bad news reports. and they don't even care if you liike MJ, they'll put you down.
powertothefoxes posted over a year ago
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*like*, hate typos.
powertothefoxes posted over a year ago
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thank you!
jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
mjkingofpop1 said:
Don't let them get to you, sis. They don't have the strong belief we do. They don't understand anyone who is a fan of MJ. I had the same problem and lost one of my friends and I just let it go. I'm still a fan of MJ today. If you need a friend, you have me. :) I'll always be your friend, regardless of what happens.
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awwwwwwwwww
jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
MJlover101 said:
I know how you feel. I have some friends who don't mind it and some friends who laugh whenever I mention him. Try standing up to them though. Give them something to think about. Tell them that there is nothing wrong with loving Michael. Just because he's dead it doesn't mean we can't love him. It's just like if you lose someone in your family. You'll always love them even though they're gone. If they still laugh ask them why. Ask them what's so funny about it. Maybe even try turning things on them and see how they like it. Don't worry though. If you ever want to talk about anything, we'll always be here for you.
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amen sister
mjkingofpop1 posted over a year ago
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thank you!
jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
powertothefoxes said:
Nobody said that to me but my dad. the reason why nobody else said that to me was because I didn't say anything to them about loving MJ. but don't worry, you're allowed to love who ever you want regardless.:)
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awww thank you!
jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
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you're welcome.
powertothefoxes posted over a year ago
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:3
powertothefoxes posted over a year ago
mjjennine said:
I get the same thing. People say But he's dead. I dont think of him as dead. I can't accept that he is. I speak of him as he IS not he WAS and I believe he's even more accesable now than if he was alive. He might be able to hear us and know what we're thinking and feel our love for him. If he was alive we had no chance of telling him how we felt unless we met him. But now he could be watching over us as we cry for him and love him. I love him and am PROUD to love him and couldn't stop even if I tried.
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I get the same thing. People say But he's dead. I dont think of him as dead. I can't accept that he is. I speak of him as he IS not he WAS and I believe he's even more accesable now than if he was alive. He might be able to hear us and know what we're thinking and feel our love for him. If he was alive we had no chance of telling him how we felt unless we met him. But now he could be watching over us as we cry for him and love him. I love him and am PROUD to love him and couldn't stop even if I tried.
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i so agree!! i always say IS and never WAS too.MY heart says that MIchael is alive and i will always love him <33
natasajackson posted over a year ago
natasajackson said:
aaaaw sissy....i feel your pain...I HAD THE same problem once too...I lost this friend but i realised that she was not a real friend
Life is difficult ,ppl can't find us all acceptable because when someone's different ,they avoid him/her
And in your case,Jazzy,i think you should talk to your friends and tell them how important is mJ for you,that you love him very much and you are proud of it and you don't care about what ppl say and that they should respect that
And then tell them that if they are real friends,they will respect you and him or else it will be proved that they are not real friends
i think that's the important thing you should do
And the most important is to not give up
We are always here for you ,you know i am always here for you,as Michael and we never let ppl let us down or make us believe that being a MJ fan is stupid or something :S
Be calm and strong and you 'll see finally if these friends are real or not
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SIS AND KEEP MICHAELING
WE ALL LOVE YOU!!!!!



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aaaaw sissy....i feel your pain...I HAD THE same problem once too...I lost this friend but i realised that she was not a real friend
Life is difficult ,ppl can't find us all acceptable because when someone's different ,they avoid him/her
And in your case,Jazzy,i think you should talk to your friends and tell them how important is mJ for you,that you love him very much and you are proud of it and you don't care about what ppl say and that they should respect that
And then tell them that if they are real friends,they will respect you and him or else it will be proved that they are not real friends
i think that's the important thing you should do
And the most important is to not give up 
We are always here for you ,you know i am always here for you,as Michael and we never let ppl let us down or make us believe that being a MJ fan is stupid or something :S
Be calm and strong and you 'll see finally if these friends are real or not
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SIS AND KEEP MICHAELING 
WE ALL LOVE YOU!!!!!
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awwwwwwww sissy....I believe u
jazzyjaz31 posted over a year ago
Thrillie-jean said:
You know,i feel like people dont understand what an awesome person michael was.so what if you're in love with him?love is a feeling-we can't help it.who says when someone dies,then all love dies with them? My grandma says that sometimes and forbids us to eat KFC on the floor coz "it's revolting." your friends are mean and probably don't deserve an awesome girl like you.i'm glad my friends are all rabid fans and my entire school knows if you wanna talk bad about michael,do it when me or any fan is not within earshot and you are sure the story wont get around, and if you want to be friends with me,then michael is part of the deal coz i won't have anyone like half of me and hate my other half.i know he's dead but not completely,we all know he's here somehow,so just keep the faith.you know that keeping the faith means never giving up on love.keep michaeling!
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