If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay! Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends ". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself years later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. *He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behaviour. *Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. NOT All men are dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending - compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships - there is nothing cute about emotional baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
Never look for someone to COMPLETE you - a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary - not supplementary. Dating is fun - even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Dating should be an opportunity to get to know a person, to decide whether you are compatible - not a reason to sleep with every new person you meet. A slutty reputation is not attractive, and hard to live down.
Make him miss you sometimes - when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. *Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: and if a man mistreats you, do not stay in the relationship. You DO NOT deserve to be treated as someones punching bag, you are not the one at fault! Don't blame yourself, he came to you that way. You can not change him. He needs to seek help for himself, but you can't force him to do this. When you're gone, he'll miss out on a good thing!!
Don't believe it when he says "no-one finds you attractive". If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your hearts ....
Tsarina *
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends ". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself years later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. *He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behaviour. *Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. NOT All men are dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending - compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships - there is nothing cute about emotional baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
Never look for someone to COMPLETE you - a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary - not supplementary. Dating is fun - even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Dating should be an opportunity to get to know a person, to decide whether you are compatible - not a reason to sleep with every new person you meet. A slutty reputation is not attractive, and hard to live down.
Make him miss you sometimes - when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. *Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: and if a man mistreats you, do not stay in the relationship. You DO NOT deserve to be treated as someones punching bag, you are not the one at fault! Don't blame yourself, he came to you that way. You can not change him. He needs to seek help for himself, but you can't force him to do this. When you're gone, he'll miss out on a good thing!!
Don't believe it when he says "no-one finds you attractive". If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Ladies take care of your hearts ....
Tsarina *