how can you figure out if the guy/girl that u are dating is going to break up with you?

This is a hard thing to do, but you need to ask yourself if YOU are still happy with the way things are. If you are sensing that he is pulling away and that you are drifting apart, you need to really think hard about how it makes you feel. I assume you're young and it won't be the last relationship you'll ever have. I've only been dumped once, but I knew it was coming. It was harder for me though because I hadn't been honest with myself that I'd been unhappy with our relationship as well. Don't let your mind be clouded by justifications. Have an honest and upfront conversation with yourself and make sure this is something worth fighting for. I'm sorry if this sounds like tough advice, but trust me, you need to protect your heart and you need to know that you deserve to be 100% happy in your relationship and that if you're not, it's for the best to end it without dragging things out for too long. See how it goes and see how you feel, but don't let this continue for months on a negative spiral. It'll hurt much more than self-honesty upfront.

That happened with my boyfriend, only I was dating him for a year and a half. It started almost 4 months into the relationship, I was supposed to be with my boyfriend on my birthday, but he said he forgot and he made other plans. I let it slide because it didn't matter much to me. Then, I was supposed to hang out with him on Valentines day (of '09) but he said he was going to his cabin. That's when I started feeling like something was wrong. Now only if you knew me, you would know that my favourite holiday is St. Patricks day, but why is not important. A week before St. Patrick's day, my boyfriend promised he would devote his day to me because he knew how important it was to me. I got home from the mall that day with one of my friends and when she left, I just waited for him. I waited for 6 hours before I cracked. I walked to his house, (in the rain)i might add, and found no one was there. I called his cell and he didn't answer. I waited on his front porch until almost 2 in the morning and finally he pulled up in his car with a girl from my school. I assumed it was just a girl who he wanted to go hang out with(or so i wanted it to be) but when they got out of the car i noticed she was wearing his shirt, and really I mean REALLY short shorts. She walked over to his side of the car and they stood there for almost 3 minutes all-out FRENCHING. I jumped up, ran close enough to his car so he could see my face, and bolted off. The next day, we were over. I knew something was wrong, but I stayed with him, just in case he might have said something. I'm not saying he's cheating on you, but maybe, he needs space after what happened at the movies, or he just changed his mind. Talk to HIM about what you feel, if you want to be a good girlfriend, it's always the best thing to do. Just try and PLEASE get back to me if it helps. I know you REALLY need to do that, if you're feeling this way. Don't let yourself stop you, be the stronger/better person, and do what you think is right. Talk to him.