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Help me guys! How to make her confess to me!

Well here's what it is... She sits with me everyday at school... Sometimes she even texts me. And there never was a time when she DIDN'T reply me back if I text her. Well I confessed to her crying and there were tears on her tears. She was all silent and she just asked me, "If I love you, will you be happy?" (Well that ques. was not so good) After all this she just don't say that she loves me. I asked her, "Do you love me?" Well she just stays all quiet when I asked her.... Now how do I MAKE her say to me that she loves me too?

 Gokussj173 posted over a year ago
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MarineHolocaust said:
What the hell? You can't make anyone say that they love you. It doesn't matter at all if they don't mean it. Don't try to push her into falling in love with you, let it happen gradually. Opening up the window to romance like that might in itself change her mindset about you. If she wasn't thinking about you like that before, she might be now. Just drop the subject and certainly don't hound her into it. Talk about it if she brings it up, but don't make her feel uncomfortable, because trust me, it'd be bad enough having someone confess their love for you if you don't feel the same way. I know, it's hard, but if it's meant to happen, it'll happen, you can't force love on someone. Dropping subtle reminders occasionally would be okay, but I wouldn't go much further than that. Don't let the failed confession put a damper in your relationship, but don't try to convince her to love you back, either. She may fall for you in due time, as I said, if it's meant to happen like that, it'll happen like that.
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Thanks a lot buddy! I know no 1 day she'll surely tell me about her heart's content...Thnx again !!!
Gokussj173 posted over a year ago
tamore said:
you can't make anyone say they love you. if you care about her you'll leave her alone and not pressure her. stop asking her, stop harassing her. if she loves you she'll tell you.

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tHNX ^_^
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SapphireCat22 said:
I agree. You can't make someone tell them that they love you. But you can take the oppertunity to tell her that you love her. It's more nerve-wracking for her than it is for you. Either you need to take the step and say it, or you just need to be patient and see what happens. One step at a time.
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tHANK UUUU :)
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aquagirl445 said:
You should never force something as delicate as love. In my opinion, if she does love you, then she will tell you when she's ready. However, try not to be too angry or upset if she doesn't say it. After all, the best relationships are formed from friendships. In other words, if you truly love her, keep being a great friend, and who knows, if she doesn't quite love you yet, maybe she'll grow to. :)
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Awww Thank uuuu!
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No problem :)
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