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Was I in the wrong?

Tiny bit of my background, so this makes sense... People hardly ever keep the promises they make to me. I've been let down a lot.

Ok, so I was texting my boyfriend, and he had a pretty rough day. I did my best to try and make him feel better, and after a while, he said he was. But he wound up not keeping a promise he made to me yesterday, something we were going to do, and that I was looking forward to. I was pretty upset, because, it was like, "Now he's doing it, too. Not keeping promises..." So, as nicely as I could, I told him I wasn't upset about not being able to do what we were going to, but I asked him please not to make promises he won't keep, because I didn't want him being one of the people who does that to me, too. He was kind of like "Ok, got it." but it somehow came across as offended, which I didn't intend. I asked him "What?" and he just said "..." and I was like "Well so much for cheering you up. It doesn't seem like I really did." and he never said anything. I waited about 15 minutes and (all the while I'm getting more worked up) then I said "got something against answering me?" and he still didn't say anything. I waited 10 more minutes then I said "well the silent treatment works both ways, you know! when you finally deign to talk to me again, don't expect me to be happy fun conversationalist. i hope tomorrow goes better for you than today, but if it doesn't, don't ruin my day, too."

My question is this: Was I wrong to get mad at him like that? Should I apologize? I mean, he had had a pretty bad day. But then again, he wasn't answering me, without any visible reason. I don't know. :/ Can someone help please?
 sunflowerchild posted over a year ago
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AlannaVerse said:
Do you know what happened to make him this upset? He seems to be really upset and if you know what is bothering him, it must be serious. I suggest giving him some space and when he's ready, he'll open up about it and you can continue with your plans. Maybe he thinks you're mad at him or something. Just give him some time, and maybe he'll come to you. I think you both need to apologize, but for now, just give him some distance and it will all work out. You can talk to me anytime. :) Best wishes.
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