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I love her :(

Okay so I'm a girl 15 years old. Um, I love my friend. No I don't know in which way, if I'm IN love with her, if I love her as my best friend, as A friend, or that I'm just fascinated of her... I just feel extremely strongly for her! But she has zero interrest in me.

She's sticking like glue to the popular girl (everything is always about how intressting she and her life is). It's really hard for me. When I'm hyper or makes mistakes, she hates me. But when the popular girl does it, she is the most funny and cute grl ever.

Um, so actually she my ex friend now I suppose. Because when you're friends they're supposed to be both giving and recieving and I wasn't getting any friendliness or love from her, only giving 24/7.

Well I stopped talking to her and now she's not even slightly noticing me. Well rarely and then she's always giving me a look like I'm the one who's the bad one because I'm not giving more?

I's sooo hard, I'm broken-hearted, because I still really love her and can't stop loving her, thogh she treats me bad and I know it. I don't know what to do and I don't have anyone to talk to. I'm worried because if I hear music from the band we both like I'm so melancholic. And even worse, the last three nights I've dreamt about different scenarias with her. Haha I'm so lame that I actually dream about her like that!

Anyway what do you think I should do? Have you tried anything like that? Help me in some way please? :( Thank you the internet, youth's way to get their stupid problems out!
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Sorry for the many spelling mistakes, I typed sooo quickly
Azoe posted over a year ago
 Azoe posted over a year ago
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michelle1654 said:
Well how did ur friend get to hang out with the popular girls in the first plc?
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i mean my friend was also her friend. then my friend started loving her more
Azoe posted over a year ago
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Oh well u should tell her how u really feel and probably the popular girls r trying to change her and make her not hang out with u anymoreif she doesn't doesn't want to hang out with u anymore than she's not a true friend
michelle1654 posted over a year ago
roseteaxx said:
She's treating you badly, and you realize that. It's hard to let go when you love someone. But it sounds like, even though it's really hard, that letting go is what is best right now.

This girl does not deserve to be with you, whether that mean friendship or romance; you deserve to be with those who love you and treat you with caring and respect. I know it's easier said than done, but try to let her go. Maybe get support from your real friends, from your family. Because you deserve to be happy.
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PentHouseForum said:
Tell her, tell her, tell !!

you'll then (if u didn't tell her) regret it and wonder your whole life what would happen if you told her. you don't wanna feel that way, remorse, not something any one would wanna experience.
believe me I've never been that sure about an advice i gave.
after you tell her it's up to her then what she does will define her and relieve you from any questioning, wondering, and doubt. then you'll know what is right to do and if she does or DOESN'T deserve you.

wish you luck ! <3

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Thank you so much for your answer<3 I can tell you what happened: She texted me, saying "why are you avoiding me?" I talked with her about it at school. I was really nervous and it was quite awkward. I tried to explain her why I avoided her. That I was always the one being her friend, and she wasn't being mine, and it seemed like I didn't mean much to her. She started to say things like "why are you being so awkward all the time" -picking on my flaws "why can't it be like that" -so I should just continue being her friend when she didn't seem to care? "why did you say that you loved me?" -I said that once because I do, but I'm not in love with her. And because we are both lesbians... she made me so uncormfortable and miserable and embarrased, and she was in perfect control over the situation, and then she left. When I got home, I text messageded her telling her that I wasn't in love with her... Just so that was clear. She writes "just saying, but why are you acting so weird" and I say "how long have you felt that way about me?" and she answers "just since June or something" -so before that, we were fine? well she gives me up very quickly then, cause she tend to carry grudge (and I except that flaw of hers). and then she writes "I don't think we should see eachother anymore, than just a "hi" when we pass eachother" so of course I cried the whole night :( and the next day I really felt the concequenses because we have the same friends and she was talking to them, and because she thinks "it is awkward to talk to me" I can't go over to my friends (but luckily there's other nice people in my school too)... and when we were in gym class she cheered for every girl on the team except me. She literally called out ALL of their names excpet mine D: So she's not just ignoring me, she want's to be mean too. That incident was thursday so nothing have changed since then, and I guess it's the end. What happened to you and your friend? Did you loose her too? :( I'm sorry it's a late answer but I didn't see your message untill now.
Azoe posted over a year ago
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I think you should text her again and tell her "I know we're not friends anymore, but I don't want us to be enemies either. Please stop being so mean to me."
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