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where this is just the problem that ordinary ppl had , i had a crush wait not just a crush ...
on my friend , he's my childhood friend he has been with me for years , he allways in the same class with me , if i tell him my feelings im afraid .. that our friendship will be a mess , do i have to tell him or i just have to forget him T.T
 MadameRedX posted over a year ago
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smile_baby said:
sista its ur choice..!! u should tell him ur feelings.. very quikly..!!
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posted over a year ago 
Spottedleaf13 said:
I would agree with smile_baby, just if you think you're ready and comfortable doing that.
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posted over a year ago 
writer67 said:
childhood feelings always stay, friends for years, beter to be freinds 4 ever , patienc an time will tell if they are fealt on the other side of the fence, frends never forget one another,equals;-]
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posted over a year ago 
xenriquegrl said:
U should tell him. You know why? Cuz since you have been friends for a long time and you know each other and ur sure of your decision to love him, you know what he's like and he knows what your like, so would he turn you down if you admit your feelings for him? Sometimes when you admit stuff, you can get really surprised. Maybe he feels the same way about u! If he doesn't well who says it will mess up ur friendship? It's normal to feel scared and doubt and all, but you'll never know unless you try.
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posted over a year ago 
IntrepidKeris said:
I have the same problem too, except for the fact that he had a girlfriend for two days(she broke up with him). I took advice from my mom, so I'll be stating her here.
Next school year, before any long break, tell him that you'll miss him. It's fairly subtle, so you don't scare him out of friendship. Then one day he might take the hint. Or, if you feel that both of you are ready, you can tell him one day, but I'm not guaranteeing that he'll say he feels the same. ;)

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posted over a year ago 
minnie1 said:
i think you should tell him how you feel.i've done it once nd now look what i havemy best friend is now my bf.but of course if he/she has a gf/bf than you should wait till they have broken up then that would b the perfect time to tell him.but that worked for me ik if it will for you but you really have to try nd not be emberessed,for me it just came out.
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posted over a year ago 
skytail127 said:
well it depends. if the idea with being just friends with him isnt acceptable to you anymore, then uve got nothing to lose, go for it. if you are ok with the way thinks are now though, you will want to think long and hard befor telling him your feelings.
once you do, there is no going back. and if you two start dateing, ur relationship will have changed forever, weather for the better or for the worse, it will never go back the the way things are now. and if you two break up, you can go back to being just friends, but ur friendship wont be the same, no matter how hard you try. im not saying dont go for it, just kno that once you do take that leap, there is no going back.
but if the choices are tell him or forget him, then the relaetionship is gonna change anyways, at least if you ask him there is a chance it will be for the better. so go for it.
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posted over a year ago 
sshannahmontana said:
If u r a couple now,I'm sorry for the late advice.I have a friend like u do since kindergarten and I don't feel the same way like u feel but u should ask him or playing games about thongs u like about him and things he like about u maybe he will understand that how much u care for him and he will likes u back by telling each others secrets.
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