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Umm... I really like this guy at school, but I'm too nervous to ask him out... I need a boost in confidence.

Also, it would be nice what to do if he turns me down...

How should I deal with it if he does?

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He turned me down... We're still good friends though... Better luck next time... ^__^"
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
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Gothheart13 said:
Come on ask him he wont hurt you, and if he turns you down just say IDIOT THIS WAS JUST ONE CHANCE FOR YOU AND YOU BLEW IT the just stomp his feet and walk away.
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lol i like you 'just stomp on his feet and walk away' lol my best friend did that to some one lol
xxmeoryouxx posted over a year ago
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LOL thanx best friend
Gothheart13 posted over a year ago
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haha thats funny
iliveingallifey posted over a year ago
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if you do that, it's not gonna help anybody, JUST SAYING THOUGH! good advice;)
Rockin2daBeat10 posted over a year ago
xxmeoryouxx said:
This will be no help because I cant ask some one out for my life im to much of a pansy lol. But If he does turns you down just say ok turn away and go home and get ice cream sit in front of the tv and hang up side down when you do it lol. It helps me and my friends lol.
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ooooo and stick your happy finger when ever his name comes up.
xxmeoryouxx posted over a year ago
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I guess we're both nervous... ;u; It's though. You feel the same way about asking someone...
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
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i did but in the end i chicken out and like 2 weeks latter out of the blue he ask me out and I said yes and we have been going out for a month if you don't count the day the I dump't him but then got back with him.
xxmeoryouxx posted over a year ago
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Hahaha, that's kind of confusing, but okay...
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
cassylovesu said:
maybe he likes u i asked mine and he said yes

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Jajaja, I'm happy for you~ That boosted the confidence a bit...
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
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yer that happend to me and when u do it its such a relife to finaly do it
iliveingallifey posted over a year ago
klarissa03 said:
You should say:
'that's your loss' and walk away.
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I don't want to sound like a jerk though... >m<
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
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Ha, I know but thts not sounding like a jerk
klarissa03 posted over a year ago
iliveingallifey said:
ok i didnt ask a guy out till i was 13 i allways thorgot i want to ask him but i got sick of waiting for my confidence i asked my friend to do it so im not sure if u want ur friend to do it or not but i hope it helps and i hope he says yes to u
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Jajaja, thanks for the support!
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
Karthigesh said:
This is quite simple actually. Are you guys friends already? If you are then it would make it slightly easier but much harder if he turns you down. If you are already close, don't ask him out on a date first, just ask him out with a group of friends that you 2 might have in common with, but take some time to talk to him privately in between when you are out.

This might sound really cheesy but it works, after an outing with a group, ask him out again, but just the 2 of you, tell him maybe you know this really nice place and you want to take him there for a dinner, if he asks you "Is This A Date?", just smile at him and say, "Perhaps....". When a lady is mysterious like this a guy cannot fail to be starstruck. While there, talk to him, get to know his likes and stuff and take interest in what he does.

If you guys aren't close you can still do the above but try getting to know him first, slow and steady. Say Hi, find something about him that catches your eye, maybe his clothes, that makes a good ice-breaker. Keep the conversation going then as you become friends, just carry on from what I described above.

Asking someone out on a date isn't the same as telling someone you like them, there are different emotions involved and firstly, do not tell yourself you would get rejected because one never knows until they try. Let's say if he doesn't want to go out with you, naturally you would feel sad, but don't let it consume you, because if you show that to him, he might feel really guilty and really want to be nice to you, not because he likes you, but because he would somehow assume that he hurt you emotionally. So even if he turns you down, try to smile and keep it within yourself, then go home, listen to music, do something you love and wait until life throws you your one and only :)

It's going to take some time, do not rush things, there is a perfect moment when you can ask him, so just take things slow, wait for the chance and go for it. Life is too short to sit back and wait for something to happen, you just have to seize the moment :)

All the best to you, from a hopeless romantic....:)
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This is so so helpful..! Thank you so much! Don't worry I'm a hopeless romantic too... :3
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
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go hopeless romantics!
skytail127 posted over a year ago
Rockin2daBeat10 said:
Maybe try to proove to him you are confident. guys LOVE confident girls! and if he turns you down, then don't take to heart, it happens to everyone. you don't need a guy to happy;)
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OuO That's so true! Thank you, thank you so much!
xxLaLaPaxx posted over a year ago
MadameRedX said:
Well if its the FIRST TIME yep its REALLY REALLY embaresing , i asked some one out but well i asked him by a letter ... and he said yes , i was like " Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah " hahahaha ... (oh old days..wait im not old -_-)
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