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This article is slightly similar to the one I wrote a few months ago, link. But I couldn't help reiterating. Sorry if it's a waste of time.

My whole life I have been fluctuating between gay and straight. It was only in my senior year that I felt confident enough to come out to my close friends in high school. I even had my first girlfriend. And being in such a warm, welcoming environment, I was able to openly discuss my feelings with others who shared them.

I found out that year that not only was I bisexual, but so were three of my friends who were previously calling themselves "straight," just like I was. One of these people was my girlfriend that year. And talking with them, I realized that I wasn't the only one who came to the conclusion of, "Well, since I like both, and I don't want to be the center of attention, I'll just focus on my straight-leaning side."

I've been seeing some concerns here that my friends voiced back then. "Sometimes, I am totally into girls, and I think, 'maybe I'm a lesbian,' but then later, like even the next day even, I'll be all, 'That guy is so frickin hot!' It's kind of making me wonder, if I do get a boyfriend/girlfriend, will I remain into them all the time?"

The fact of the matter is, no one is into their significant other all the time. Believe me, ask anyone who has had a boyfriend/girlfriend for longer than six months and they'll tell you the same thing. What is important is that you want to be with that person, regardless of what gender s/he is.

I have learned, through research, discussions, and my own experience that these fluctuations are normal. To me, bisexuality is one of the most beautiful things, because it doubles the opportunity for love. As Alyssa from "Chasing Amy" puts it, "The way the world is - how seldom you meet that one person who gets you... it's so rare... And to cut oneself off from finding that person - to immediately half your options by eliminating the possibility of finding that one person within your own gender... that just seemed stupid. So I didn't."

So just be reassured that it's OK to be confused about your sexuality and what to label yourself. link supports the theory that the majority of people are bisexual. So try not to fret so much over labels. Feelings change, and it's completely normal. Just know that by not categorizing yourself, you're open to find love with anyone.
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I am the boy who never finished high school because I got called a fag everyday.

I am the girl who was kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother I was a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because no one will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who held her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled night.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in a hospital because they would not let my partner of 27 years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the...
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I particularly love this one. <3
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Here is a ineteresting article I found about defending Adam Lambert and defending gay men in general!
This is also talking about gay double standards!
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After The Early Show on CBS blurred out the “gay kiss” between Adam Lambert and a male dancer during his AMA performance, the president of GLAAD — the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, Jarrett Barrios told the media…

“The Early Show’s decision this morning to blur Adam Lambert’s kiss from the American Music Awards reinforces an unfortunate double standard that is applied...
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Im lesbian. I dont like bullying or gay bashin or desremination.
But when we say "Your an idiot" or "Your a disgrace cause you hate homosexuals" ...how is that helping us? People. If they dont like us, thats their choice. we cant make everybody love us because we love us.
If we are gay/lesbian/bi/trans..thats who we are. we know who we like and dislike and so does some straight person who isnt a fan of same sex couples. big fricken woop...theres gay people who think being straight is weird??
But that doesnt give them the right to ban us gays from doing what straights do, or bullying gays, taking...
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to educate you about the struggles and the hardships about being trans, trans people are people just like you, share the love, respect :)
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