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"When are you going to tell your parents that you're straight?" I don't get that quote. Explain?

Obviously, it's about coming out, from the POV of someone who's LGBTQ, but I don't understand exactly what the sign is about. Like, what is it trying to say?
"When are you going to tell your parents that you're straight?" I don't get that quote. Explain?
 r-pattz posted over a year ago
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Cinders said:
Perhaps the ever sexy and awesome John Barrowman can help elaborate on this point:

“My parents have always brought us up to believe that sex and sexuality are something to be proud of, and you don't have to flaunt it if you don't want to. People don't walk around with a banner saying they're straight, so why should I walk around with one saying I'm gay? I understand there are people who want to and need to make that statement, and I appreciate that, but don't come down on me because I'm not one of them.”
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Perhaps the ever sexy and awesome John Barrowman can help elaborate on this point:

“My parents have always brought us up to believe that sex and sexuality are something to be proud of, and you don't have to flaunt it if you don't want to. People don't walk around with a banner saying they're straight, so why should I walk around with one saying I'm gay? I understand there are people who want to and need to make that statement, and I appreciate that, but don't come down on me because I'm not one of them.”
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That is very true.
Vixie79 posted over a year ago
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John Barrowman ♥
BellaCullen96 posted over a year ago
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i agree!! XD
BeyondBirthday1 posted over a year ago
GaGaBoi said:
I think it's supposed to mean '' Straight people don't need to go through '' comming out '' because parents automatically ASSUME their children will be straight ''.


It's all about Assumption I think and how it's wrong to Assume that?

Well, that's what I got from it, it's a poorly executed sign though.
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...I guess that would make sense. Thanks:)
r-pattz posted over a year ago
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thats not always true gagaboi i knew 2 of my children were gay i think before they did lol what hurt me the most was they were so nervous about coming out to me,when i asked them why they were they both told me that it me that made them nervous they knew i would stand by them no matter what but that it felt like screaming it out to the world it finalized it in a way and they were just scared in general
winterskyzz posted over a year ago
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My mom knew I was gay long before I hit puberty, but yeah, too many people assume their kids are straight. And r-pattz, I have no idea why that is either.
Roxas1314 posted over a year ago
SouthParkSmart said:
Because it's like saying to a gay person, "When are you going to tell your parents that you're gay?"

I personally hate the whole idea of "coming out of the closet", because straight people don't have to do it, so why should we?
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I know right?
Vixie79 posted over a year ago
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true, never thaught about it though
coriann posted over a year ago
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*thought*
coriann posted over a year ago
BeyondBirthday1 said:
i think of it like the people who are LGBT always get told or think 'so when are you going to tell you parents your ____' so its like LGBT asking straight people 'why ask us a stupid question like tht when it doesnt matter people think, you should just love who and what they are or you are' well its kinda hard to explain i guess,o well -___- my brain is fried
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lol, i get it :P
coriann posted over a year ago
monferno94 said:
because people are always asking people of the LGBTQ community when they're going to tell their parents they're gay/lesbian, and it's not right, beause straight people don't have to tell they're parents. its unfair how parent assume you're going to be straight

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coriann said:
when i saw this question, it kind of made me feel uncomfortable, maybe that's how gay people feel when people ask them that and they just want us to feel what they're feeling.
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although, those questions might annoy them they might be kind of nesessary, because LGBT is not really a norm its sort of different and out of the ordinary as the higher percentage of ppl r straight, or maybe ppl just havent come out about it
coriann posted over a year ago
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the thing about flaunting is rude and unecessary
coriann posted over a year ago
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why isnt it the norm? its plently normal to be gay, many people are. many people to the point there might be as many gay people as there is straight. and yeah it is unnessary to be asked not to "flaunt" about being straight, but knowyou know how it feels to not be accepted about your sexuality because it is seen as "unnormal"
ImBooOK posted over a year ago
winterskyzz said:
i think its just a little sarcasm to show straight people what they have to go through with the questions and comments they are always getting just a gentle way to show people how silly their comments and questions can be,i like it
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ImBooOK said:
I hate that people use the excuse that being straight is natural but by being homosexual its some kind of "genetic" mutation or some that was INFLUENCED. being straight is just as natural as being gay, just ignorant people have been telling people lies all these years stateing it isn't something natural and possibly is genetically mutated or that the only reason people are epressing gayness is because it was "learned" from other gay people. its like saying being gay is a CHOICE, and no in fact its not. i am not a genetic mutant because i am just the same as a staight woman, and if you where to argue against me then that must mean you believe that being straight is a mutation and was influenced by other straight people. I think they are saying that by being gay you have to "come out" about it when people should just not worry about wether they are gay or straight. their people. we are people. (unless your in fact, a goldfish) And whos to say straight people where here first? what if everyone was bisexual? so i could say unicorns exsisted in the beginning of time and you would have to assume so, and you would be like "well wheres your evidence?" and i would reply "well where is YOUR evidence that god exsisted or hated gays or where is the facts that everyone was straight until this "mutation" came along?" and the answer you would give me is...what? the bible? do you know who wrote the bible? have you had the technology to prove all humans in the beginng where straight? no. you dont. so eh. im sorry if i went overboard. im REALLY HYPER. :/
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at my new school they were talking about that (all girls school too, awesome right? No.) and they were saying there was a gene that makes people that way and I'm like ._. tell my dad that and he may put me and my sister up for adoption. But then they went on saying that they didn't care of someone was gay or not. Love is love. So hey its all good!
Corgilover183 posted over a year ago
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Well i hate the people who say they are ok with gays but yet they go "But scientifically..." ??? like who does that and oh god if i was at an all girls school....<.< it would be hard to keep inside my pants
ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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