Raven's selfishness doesn't come from ruining her story but risking everyone's existence so she could get away from it. she put everyone's lives at risk. of course it all turned out alright in the end because of story purposes and trying to start the debate of fate vs choice but she didn't know that, heck she even expected that the result of her rejecting her story would be the annihilation of their world. Apple is hecka selfish for expecting Raven to put up with all that crud just so she can have a happy ending and this is something explored as the series goes on but its not that she doesn't consider everyone else. in hearts day she was genuinely terrified for her friends fate should she reject her predestined story. but yeah :P if we're only talking about what happened on legacy day both of them prioritized themselves over the possible consequences

Apple White a bit more, but they both were.

Apple in general straight up annoys me. She only ever really cares about herself raven didn’t wanna live a horrible life and get tortured like it showed. Apple should at least understand as a friend that that’s not what she wants and wants to do something with her like but Apple doesn’t gibs a fuck. If Apple ant get what she want she will basically continuously throw a temper tantrum.