if you got a chance to ask evanescence questions what would you ask them?

I got the chance many times but they never answered my questions! Once Amy replied to me but that wasn't even an answer for a question haha
soo...the question I have in my mind since I've heard the album is :
What was the inspiration for Say You Will?
I really want to know the answer because she sings like she wasn't married...who is she singing this to!?

I would ask how to start career to become very good musician as Evanescence, cause now I'm like Amy, when it was Evanescence EP's era.