Why should i love them instead of Elena and Stefan?

Simply because Damon and Elena have a lot more to offer you as an intelligent viewer. They're witty, sharp, hot and have amazing chesmitry on screen. Their relationship is deeper and MORE than just meeting each other and being attracted to each other and then falling in love in no time. It will be dark, twisted and beautiful at the same time. Their love story has amazing potential if it is done right because their characters have so many layers. Damon has a lot of layers and Elena seems to be much more alive when she is with him than when she is with Stefan. They are just perfect for each other. And this is just my opinion of course ;)

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in the most recent vampire diaries show elena tells damaon that they are done being friends forever and damon is heart broken!! its sooo sad