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What Does It Mean When A Boy Says " I Don't Care " ???

Boys Are So Complicated ! So Anyway , I Had Gotten Jealous Because My Boyfriend Currently Is In A Different State , Visiting Family . Well He Hangs Out With His Two Older Brothers & Both Of Them Have Girlfriends & One Of The Girls Brought Her BestFriend , So When Him & I Are Texting He's Telling Me How This Girl Keeps Flirting With Him & How She's Ugly & How I'm Way Beautiful Then She'll Ever Be . Basically Just Saying What I Wanna Hear .. Well I'm Like Ok . Blah Blah Blah . Then He Doesn't Reply ... Like Oh My God ? So About An Hour Later He Texts Me Saying " Oh My Phone Was Dead & I'm So Sorry . " & Just Being Apologetic . So I Told Him It Was Alright When Obviously I Was Pissed Off . So I Just Replied With One Worded Text You Know ? Until He Finally Figured Out " Hey You Know She's Fucking Pissed At You Because Of That Girl . " So He Asked " Are You Okay ? " & Of Course I Lie & Say " Naaah , I'm Fine ." He Had Said I Seemed Mad . So He's Gonna Let Me Cool Off . 20 Minutes Later He Texts Me A Long Ass Paragraph Of How He Was Sorry & He Doesn't Care About That Dumb Ass Girl . I'm Quoting His Words Not Mine cx So Anyways He Said He Was Going Through All Of My Stuff . Instagram & Snapchat & Facebook . & That He Had Seen A Boy & He Went Through All His Pictures & Saw That He Put A Tbh On My Picture Saying That I was Really Beautiful & Funny & Everything . & Said He Didn't Like That Boy , Buuuut !! That He Didn't Care That I Talk To Him .
Sooo . Does That Mean He Does Care & He's Just Saying He Doesn't . Or He Really Actually Doesn't Care .? Help Me .
 realgarcia_ posted over a year ago
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quaintcomfort said:
Boys can be just as complicated as girls, but then again I have my own boy problems, haha. I'll try my best to go through this thoroughly to give you some advice. (:

I think he was jealous of the guy if he told you he didn't like him. If he seemed sort of discreet when he told you 'I don't care' then that might actually mean he doesn't care. Boys usually don't like to show their emotions full on since they always believe they have to be the 'tough' one, although it's been proven boys and girls feel and express similar emotions, us girls are just more open about it than guys can be.

I don't know your boyfriend personally so I can't really give a very 'accurate' opinion about this, but I believe he honestly was telling you he does care, he just is saying he doesn't. It's a good thing he doesn't care that you talk to other guys, because if he was one of those boys who get mad if you talk to anyone BUT him, then you should think about that.
If it honestly is bothering you, I would ask him yourself. If you guys are dating then you should have the right to talk to him about stuff like this. Again, I'm no expert, but I hope I helped you. (:

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naniboo2004 said:
He does care if he truly cares (which it seems he does) then that practically means he doesn't want you to talk to other guys but does not want to show it
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