My crush is sending me mixed messages, like he ripped up a note saying I like him, but he looked me in the face and said u smile, I smile why is he being confusing?
I know what it's like. I've had the same crush since 1st grade. He flirts tons with me, but never replies to my Valentine Day cards. Like one day I think he L-word's me, but the next he ignores me alot. One day get your crush in an isolated spot and just ask him if he likes you. If you're shy get a close friend to ask. If he doesn't like you, then he's pondscum. I'm sure you're a great person and there's always plenty of fish in the sea.
Uh~ because he does not know WHAT he wants -or- doesn't know HOW to act, (maybe), -or- because he is a JERK. Hello. Females don't need the mind games and confusion anymore than guys do! If you cannot straight up ask him then I do not know "what" his problem is -but the mixed signals ARE a problem. It is not fair for one thing and it tugs you around by heart-strings. Love & Love-matters are not always fair. We do not all have the same rule book.
Ripping up your note just probably means he does not want someone (or people) to read it. Maybe he has other girls, or maybe he has a snoopy Mom. (??) Females tend to do A LOT of reading into things (without asking) because we HAVE to read between the lines sometimes when guys may not be the best communicators. Big No-nos. Signs and signals are OFTEN misread.
