i have a huge crush on one of my childhood best friends, but now he has a girlfriend! HELP ME!!! what do i do?

Ahhh, honestly, this is always a tough situation. Do you think that you can get over him? I know it's hard to get over somebody you really like, or maybe love, but in this case yoiu might have to. But to tell you the truth, there is no simple way out of this. :/ I know that this sounds scary, but maybe you can tell him how you feel? Do you think you can take that risk? :/ Because, I see your choices as either get over him and move on, or just tell him how you feel privately. Or, if you want you can wait for him to break up with her, but I don't think I would do that, if I were you. Waiting while still being so crazy about him will really hurt you, I think. :/ And seeing them together too...I can't imagine. So, this is your call, hon. But, I think the best thing to do is get over him, but like I said, it's your choice. Realize that if you tell him how you feel, that it's risky. Ask yourself this, do you want him to be happy? And do you think that you could be able to get him to leave his girlfriend for you, even though he might really like her a lot? And, if he does leave her for you, do you think that your friendship with him would survive through the relationship, and even after you break up (if you do) after months or years, do you think that you could still be his friend? Even after you loved him so much?

lol I'm sorry. XD I tend to think deeply. But, think about all of this, and decide what you have to do. :)))) Good luck!

u could;

a) try ignore your feelings for a while(if u feel u cld be better as friends)

b)Tell him, but only if its really necessary.

c)and remember friendships usually last longer than 'coupleship'...

and also, honesty is the best so if your gut tells u to tell him, then tell him how u feel, u never know, maybe he likes u too. :)

Confront Him OR just try and be happy for him at least youll be there no matter what and if he gets into a fight with his girlfriend youll be there Forever And Always <3 :)

You could just tell him how you feel... easier said then done... he might not feel the same way... theres two ways to find this out ...

WAY 1:

Get the girlfriend in a lie or something she has done wrong (Mean way)

WAY 2:

Just keep smiling and dont be afraid to flirt! After all hes YOUR friend! (Harder Way)

well I think u shuoldn't tell him anything 'cuz u could ruin the friendship by telling him. . . and 4 me, a friend is much better than a bf. But it 's up to u, do u want him more as a friend or as something else???

1st don't get torn up about. Hang out with him more. If they break up (more than likely they will) make a move don't ask him out but flirt with him. Hope things work out!