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vanillamoon08 said:
Okay...um...yeah I think it's a problem. But it's even bigger of a problem when it comes to calling each other. I'll tell you why, lol. It's because in a relationship, the man should lead. Like, he should call first, text first, take you on most of the dates, pay for the dates, and so on. And, him not texting you first shows that he's not looking to lead, and to be the "hunter". He's looking for you to do that instead, and that's not good. Unless you want to be in charge of the relationship yourself, then this is not good that he texts you first.
So, talk to him about this. Communication is key in any relationship. Tell him that you would like for him to text you first sometimes. If he has no problem with that, then you're good. But if he does, then it's not good. Then you decide what to do from there, girl. Or, let's say he says that he will text you first from now on, and he never does, talk to him about it again, and honestly it's also your decision what to do from there too. :) Just make sure that you know what you want from a relationship, and that he has those quailties. :]
I hoped this helped you somehow! :)
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