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Crush Question

(PLEASE HELP ASAP) Do you think it's weird for me to have a crush that has lasted 2 years and 9 months? (it's my first cush and I have had it for that long. I can't get over this guy!)

I have liked him (Mike Sanchez) for 2 years and 9 months and all my friends are all like "OMG! That long! I think you need to get over him. It's been almost 3 years and you STILL like him! You should tell him. Anyways, there is only a few days of school left."

So I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP,

tnx!

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Im goin threw the same thing right now.
AngelG326 posted over a year ago
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I'm in the same situation. It's not weird at all...it just mean you REALLY have feelings for this guy, not just some little girl crush
julialovesMJ posted over a year ago
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ok, i thought it was werid cuz my friends were all like ´´STILL!!!´´
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vanillamoon08 said:
I don't think it's weird at all to like somebody for that long! I mean, a lot of people can argue with that, but love is love, right? There's nothing you can do if you still like the person after two years or so.
However, I really think that you should tell him. This is kinda tricky since you only have a few days left of school, but maybe do you think that you can tell him somehow? Because, even though I think that it's okay to like a guy for a long time like that, I also feel that it's a long time to do something about it. I also realize that it's tricky in the sense that since you've liked him for so long, that you probably built up really strong feelings for him during that time, which means that if you tell him, and you get rejected, it might mean a big heartbreak for you. :( So, I want you to be careful, and keep in mind that there's always a chance that he might not be into you. But if he is, then that's great!!!!! :D

Okay, I have a story kind of similar to yours about my friend. She's liked this guy for nine years. Nine years. And she never told him. Nope. She barely talks to him, but she used to years ago. She's graduating from high school now, since she's a senior, but she's never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss yet, because she never moved on after nine years. I'm telling you this because I want you to see what can happen if you don't act out on a crush. :/ You can like somebody for that long, but let them know. :) For, if they like you back, you can be with them! But if they reject you, then you know to move onto somebody who does like you for who you are. :)

So, basically, I think you should tell him somehow. Don't just blurt it out to him, but build up a conversation first so hell be less shocked. :) Good luck!!!! I hope this helped you.
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thanks a lot! i already told him yesterday and he said he used to like me a year ago and he still inda likes me i think.
busted posted over a year ago
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You're welcome! <3 And, ooohh okay. :/ If he liked you before, there could be chance that he may like you again. :) I think you should be friends with him for now, and see where that goes. :D
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
soffi said:
actually I don't think it's that bad if u really like him, some ppl just take some more time to get over someone so if u think it's ok then don't listen to ur friends!!
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okay! thanks!
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InBieberzPantz said:
Totally NOT! i think that if you liked him for that long, you have something going for you...and I'VE ALSO LIKED A GUY FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS TOO:)SO dont worry, but i think that u should SIGN HIS YEARBOOK SAYING HOW YOU'VE HAD A CRUSH ON HIM<3 and PUT THAT YOU LIKE HIM(IF YOU GET YEARBOOKS)
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I told him I like him on the last day of school and he said "ok! Good!" then walked away. Then my freind said "let me get it on video" . So she borrowed my ipod and made a video of me telling him. the first time i told him but the second i didn't wanna say it again cuz i was scared to go again and i felt like a fool telling him that.
busted posted over a year ago
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haha i made mi bff tell him he said just friendz tho but he flirts w/ me more now!!!
cassiluvsjustin posted over a year ago
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awwwwww! i hope he likes u:) and thats such an adorable idea!
InBieberzPantz posted over a year ago
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:)
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cassiluvsjustin said:
oh no!!!! thts nothing ve had a crush on this guy for 4 years he still dosent know its normal!!!
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ok, thanks! i thought it was going to be weird!
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HaruLuver said:
Trust me that's not so bad. I've liked a guy for 8 years and I still like him. So I guess that's completely normal. Most of my friends have liked someone for that long too. Your not alone.
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