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ok so this sucks...

i had a best friend (so i thought) and we knew each other since 3rd grade now we r in 9th. ok so when i got pregnet, i had an abortion. she said that she would support me with my disition but then she goes telling my other friends what a bitch i am because of it. so then i slapped her and we fist fighted. now my other friends dont wanna talk 2 me and they dont agree with my supposed friend. what should i tell them so that they can talk to me again but not my retarded excuse of a friend?
 lililove15 posted over a year ago
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AdaLove said:
Oh shit!Actually I am more schocked..emmm you got pregnant???But you only 15!:0
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posted over a year ago 
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yupp and thats what fucked up my life. but the thing is my mom dont know and i got an abortion.
lililove15 posted over a year ago
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OMMG!! xx
ellietwilight12 posted over a year ago
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WOW!!!!!!!!Oh girl,it looks like a TV series...I am more amazed than socked:pOhhhhh and if your mum learns....:/
AdaLove posted over a year ago
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WOW!! lol a tv series
CassiLuvsBrndon posted over a year ago
HaleyDewit said:
Everyone makes mistakes.You getting pregnant was one.I suppose you were really scared and you had to tell someone.Telling your boyfriend was probably to hard,because he might have dumped you.You were probably afraid to your parent's reaction,so turning to your best friend was the most obvious option.You told her about your pregnancy and you trusted her to keep it a secret an to support you.She promised she would.But she didn't.That was not a mistake,that was a choice.I will never support people who have commit abortion,but I won't judge them either.Maybe your friend really meant it when she said she would support you,but realized afterwards it was harder than she expected.Maybe there's a hidden reason for her betrayal.If she's just a bitch who like to gossip about people,than I give you one advice:Dump her,but don't lower yourself to her level.If you don't say bad things about her,your friends will realize you're better than her.But you have to give them time.Hearing your friend had an abortion is a lot to handle for teenagers.
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posted over a year ago 
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suppose all that is true. its been a whole month and she still is bicthing. ok so i told my now ex boyfriend about everything but he didnt dump me because of the abortion. he was still with me and supported me with every decision i made even though he didnt agree. yes i was afraid of what my mother would think of me and about her reaction bubt i had to tell some one obviosly. but i just dont get it. why would my friend do this to me. and having the abortion was the only way. i could have the baby because im 15 and my baby would have died in labor. just becuase some one had an abortion doesnt mean that they are untrustworthy, a lot of people trust me and they know they can because they can. if that makes sence. and all this was really hard for me, u might think that after the abortion i was reliefed or that i was glad that i wasnt pregnant any more or that i wont have to face my mom or my now ex boyfriend or any other bull shit that comes after but i wasnt. i could sleep at night i could stop crying. i wanted the baby when i found out i was pregnant. so u know what? u should get to know some one before u choose to not trust them because of u do, imagine what they will feel. when i read that i felt like shit. even now that its been a month and i cant get over it.
lililove15 posted over a year ago
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I think it's gonna take more than a month to get over it.
HaleyDewit posted over a year ago
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