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One of my best friends is an atheist. I really want her to go to heaven but I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help? :c
 Gumball17 posted over a year ago
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Cinders said:
You don't know where she's going after death. Only God knows. Prayer is well and good, if it makes you feel better. Other than that, just be kind. Jesus dwelled with sinners and wasn't trying to make them repent, he just loved them, when all of society shunned them. That's the best you can do, is just love your friend, and treat her and her beliefs with respect.

Love and prayer, that's my suggestion.
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bri-marie said:
I never understood this.

Yahweh is supposed to be merciful and all loving. Which means that he would look at a persons beliefs and go "ya know, they didn't believe in me, but they were a pretty good person. I'll let them into heaven."

So, either Yahweh isn't all loving and all merciful like is so often claimed, or your friend is no danger of not getting into heaven.
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I am afraid there list of criteria to get into heaven and just being a good person isn't enough.
tiagih posted over a year ago
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I believe that even though the Bible gives you a few paths to heaven (yes, a few, not one), that the only person who can truly know where you belong is God himself. Which is why I believe there are many Christians in Hell and many non-Christians in Heaven, because only God knows your true soul, your deeds, and your faith. I also believe that even if you don't have a specific Faith in the Christian God, by having faith in SOMETHING, by showing you are capable of belief, whether it's in another God (Judaism or Islam), or in the common decency of humanity and human beings, you are showing, in some way, shape or form, faith in Him, as He is all things, is He not?
Cinders posted over a year ago
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I also struggle with the thought of who gets into heaven. I can't imagine a faithful, good hearted, Jewish person being in hell because he or she didn't believe Jesus was Gods son. If someone is a good person then they do have the love of Jesus in them. If anything I feel like the abrahamic religions such as Islam and Judaism hav some part of heaven at least because they do believe in God
livetobefree posted over a year ago
tiagih said:
You can't really do anything but pray and show by example (not words) what Christianity is all about.

But just being honest here, if you knew that person was an atheist when you became friends, why would you expect them to act different later in the relationship. Vice versa that person should know that you are a Christian and believe in heaven and hell, and you don't plan on changing while you guys are friends.

I think most people think that they can change someone once they become close to them, but sometimes that is quite the opposite. You can't change people, people have to want to change themselves.

If she was an atheist before you met her and then you befriended her, that is like saying your ok with that part of her character (so to speak). I get my 3P's (Politics, Parenting, and Principles) out before I say I befriended someone, so that away there is already an understanding and less worry and confusion.
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livetobefree said:
Respect her belief first of all. U wouldn't like it if she tried to challenge what u believed so just have respect and be the light God would want u to be.
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