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About the Xander/Anya thing, what bothered memost was that he acts all sad about it but then goes and leaves so poor anya has to deal with all the guests and cancelling the wedding! To me what's worse than him breaking off the wedding is that like a coward he runs off instead of taking responsibility. He runs off leaving it up to Anya to cancel the wedding and explain what happened to all the guests, even though she was heartbroken. To not only leave her, but to hide from all the fallout made me want to shake him, it was so selfish.

Oh, agreed MT. Especially when Anya had no one, all the Scoobies were his friends and they were anxious to ease his suffering not hers. Then he gets all mad when Anya sleeps with Spike/gets her demon back. Not his say anymore. Dude, you made your choice.

But he should really have spoken up a LOT sooner. Maybe the whole thing could've cleared up.

On the day itself, he only did what he believed was best for Anya in the long run, and I have to relpect that.

if he didn't think he could get married or didn't want to get married....then of course he shouldn't have gotten married. but to wait until your wedding day to express these feelings? that's just so wrong. and mermaid-tail is right...he completely embarrassed and abandoned anya. while there is no correct way or respectable way to dump your fiancee on your wedding day- there are better ways than how xander did it.
he definitely should have explained himself better, he should have taken responsibility, and should not have put anya in a position that made her even more vulnerable- and more embarassed and ashamed of what just happened.

it wasnt really right but he did it out of love to really it wasnt all that bed its not like he said i hate u i dont wanna marry u or anything u noe

Though i dont like how he left anya to deal with everything after leaving her at the alter. i think both anya and xander be alot better off if he had taken responsibility sooner but at the time he was following how he felt, though at the time might have not been the best thing...but he didnt want to tie him and anya into a loveless marriage, or end up like his parents after their marriage, in his mind he felt he was spare her that. Though obivously he made things worse