did willow go crazy and almost destroy the world when oz left? i think not :)

One, Willow wasn't as in to magic and control then and two, he didn't die. Might be a factor.

well true :) but i also think her connection with tara went deeper. and, when oz came back she chose her right?

Oz was back before Willow allowed herself to be who she really is. She was still trying to be the "good student, the good daughter," etc. It's pretty common for lesbians to date guys early on in high school, because it's what you're "supposed to do." Although I never did. :D

I love both relationships sooooooooo much but i gotta go with spikes_girl on this one the connection with Tara ran so much deeper

i liked tara and willow together they were a perfect pairing

Tara forever.

She loved both but Tara and Willow had a really powerful connection!

yeah like spikegurl said willow is the only character where i think the shippers can't debate as much because she did have a direct choice and she chose tara

just because she is now a lesbian though doesn't mean she didn't love oz

I agree with spikes_girl

I say both honestly for different levels, but I love Woz. :)

Ok, she probably loved Tara more, but Oz was her first love, and I just felt like picking Woz.