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Is it attention seeking if I vent my feelings?

Because I'm really really scared and paranoid as being seen as an attention seeker, I really am. I just need to tell people how I'm feeling but when I do no one gives a shit, I try to tell someone, they go on to talk about something else, and I just feel like there's no point, because no one really gives a shit. I'm scared of being forever alone even though I'm only fourteen but nearly everyone I know is in a relationship and I'm just sat there with my ginger dog. I am genuinely scared of being forever alone, no boy takes any interest in me, and I have to stop myself from taking an interest in a boy because they're either friends and I'm scared of ruining that, or I know I'll be hurt, because I nearly always tell them and they always tell me in their own messed up way they don't like me back.
I'm also scared as I've managed to get addicted to something. When it's not an addiction you think "Oh I'd be able to stop." but it's really difficult, and it's not a good thing to be addicted to, and why I've become addicted to it is just confusing. I don't understand it, GAH.
 1-2vampire posted over a year ago
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harrypotterbest said:
Madi, I love you.
You're not an attention seeker if you're venting your feelings, trust me. I'm always here to listen, just remember, okay?
You will never end up "forever alone". You're single NOW, but soon you'll be with someone. And keep in mind that we'll always be here for you, so there really is no way you'll end up forever alone. Think about it, you're beautiful, funny, smart, charming, cool, and amazing, there is no way you'll ever end up alone. One day you'll find someone who is perfect for you.
You know I'm always here to help, yeah? No addiction can't be overcome. You just need to work hard at it. What really helps, for me at least, is trying to lower it a little at a time. Eventually it'll be all gone, or at least controllable.


Madeline Biggerstaff, you are absolutely amazing. I don't doubt for a second that you will find your perfect match, and have a wonderful life. I love you so, so much. Always remember that, and know that if you need anyone, I'm here. Never hesitate to talk to me. I love you and want you to be happy.
Lots of love,
<3
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Fenrir said:
Sounds like you have a lot on your mind. Sometimes it's hard to talk about feelings. Just remember that we're a family. So come to us if you have anything you want to talk about :P

I'm not saying I'll be able to help, but I do care. And I...kind of listen xD

But anyways. We're here for you :)
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IzzyOzera said:
It's not attention seeking.
You're not going to be forever alone. Just because you're not in a relationship now does not mean you won't be in 10 years.
I'm not sure what you've become addicted to. But whatever it is, it is easy to get help. You just have to ask...

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posted over a year ago 
wotcher-tonks said:
I
Have
The same
Exact
Problem
O.O
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Same
Ms_Mea posted over a year ago
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Here lol
Ms_Mea posted over a year ago
simpleplan said:
You find love remeber you are only 14 years old
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