Is it okay to not have a boyfriend or even a crush on a boy at my age?

Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age or dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when you should or shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, you should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to you later and if not, that's still okay too.

You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much love and romance in school and wait until your done.
You can focus more on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...

Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My friends would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves you soo much and you don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, or maybe your scared people are gonna find out who you like, or nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)

You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.

Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D

We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any more I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless you are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its you and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.

Dont worry lol same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone

well ur in highschool so yeah you can date.
14 idk you should wait til 16

It's fine, there's no rule that says you have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like you at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now lol xD

It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because you can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on YOU and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If you like someone and they don't like you back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.

It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who you can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and you should feel proud that you haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who you are, or your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who you are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' by your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that you won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.

It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. You probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who YOU are. This is a wonderful time, where you actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.

Yes. But people are always acting like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.