so i accidentally didn't chose an icon and i've been trying 2 get 1 but where can i find it?

u should try Zerochan.net, this is were I got my icon
they have lots of cool stuff

Google search for a pic that you want and then save it to your computer, then on your profile click where it says 'view more photos' then choose 'upload new photo' and find the file you saved. As the person above me said, zerochan is really good for anime pictures. :)