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saw some kids from my year today...laughed at me..and now i feel rather,well sad y'know :( please help me feel this can only make me feel stronger or something..

well,i'm like the most lone person in my year.you know why?bcs all my friends are 15-21 years old and i'm 14.im in year 10.and everyone is a jerk to me.they started calling me names and leaving me out of things bcs they couldn't accept me for me.so now i'm like the loner.no,i really am a loner.no joke.but today as i was going to see my friend,who surprisingly is 16,and i thought (i was on my bike) if i didn't stop,they'd probably shout insults at me.so i stopped and i was like hii eric (this boy used to be my freind,but now he's a complete dick to me,and very offensive) he turned and gave me a look like i was stupid,and said hi and turned round quickly.the stupid popular girl he was with burst out laughing,but i ignored her.then i turned to the other girl,who's in some fo my classes just to kinda keeo my cool with what just happened and asked her if she was off to see her freind cuz it was her birthday.just small talk.then i said,cool,tell ehr happy b-day from me.then i left.these fucking idiots.they think they're better than me,they look at me like im a piece of shit on their shoes.i was wearing my own 'rather be dead(crossed out)alive shirt i did(quote by hayley williams)living dead souls purple zebra print hoodie,black skinnies,and converse.i didnt feel one bit ashamed.i just felt so stupid i even bother with these ignorant scum bags.but the worst part is telling my cousin this i started crying.but im just hopeing you guys can resuere me and help me see this incident as a good thing,to teach me something to make me stronger.sorry it's long,idk if you guys bother with this..
 laspanglish posted over a year ago
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BabyBlud said:
To be honest i don't know why you feel sad. You showed these people you were the bigger person by ignoring their insults and still being polite and restrained about your emotions.
Having older friends, it seems to me that you're mature for your age, which could be a factor as to why these people don't like you. You don't act like them, or talk like them so therefore because you're different you're a threat. Don't change who you are for people who can not accept you. It is their loss not yours.
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posted over a year ago 
POPclogger216 said:
Like you said, you stuck up to them. That's what matters. You weren't afraid of facing the people who tormented and teased you.
If you felt stupid talking to them, then don't bother. They're 'scum-bags', as you said. If they ever call you something or tease you again, just say "Thank You." smile, and leave.
And it's okay to cry. Don't be ashamed. It's good to cry. Crying is a way to let out your fellings that you usually keep inside you. Think of every tear shed as a memory, a name, a concern, or a worry that is washed away from your mind. :)
If you need any more advice, somebody to chat with, be a friend, or just somebody to listen, I'm here. :)
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posted over a year ago 
writer67 said:
small things amuse small minds, they think if they laugh at others that are better than you. one day it will be them that someone will laugh at.you are a good person sadly the jerks, are young and you are more mature than them. dont let em beat you, for you are one of the special ones, of greatness, your studies will take you away to a great job and to the dreams you want. some of them that laugh will not get a job, and some may collect trolleys for their future.but dont jin them and do what has been done to you to others. but you wouldnt and thats your nature.do good be good, and maybe change something of you, perhaps a volunteer somwhere. in all keep studying, smile. you didnt bite scream or shoot, hope you never get a flat tyre, and may peace be with u;-]
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posted over a year ago 
neofly said:
ok well they oviously rnt ur friends. Its time to forget them and make some new friends. Who r truley there for u. The frinds u discribe sound like there those people who r all cool with u until they see some one above them around. then they push u away. Well now be with friends who except u. and push those old friends away. People like that r just stuck up. You shouldnt feel down they just werent ment to be ur friends.
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posted over a year ago 
coolkatstar said:
Hey, Why do you care of these People? I mean if someone's not caring for you throw him/her out of your life right? and basically you are youself's friend you dont need anyone else. there are so many things you can do without people without friends just read this article.
you should enjoy being a loner.
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posted over a year ago 
2dolphn97 said:
Confront their worst fears. Go up to them look them straight in the eye and say "*giggles* you think your better than me because your older, and laugh at me for being younger. Remember this. Paybacks a bitch. And yours will be coming for you one day. Maybe not to day, maybe not tomorrow but one day. You will most likely go nowhere in life while you feel all high and mighty now in about twenty years from now you will be a nobody. No one will want to hire you and maybe one day you'll come into my office and ask for a job. I'll just say no and have you escorted out by security. I hope your happy being a selfish bitch/ ass-hole. Cuz that's all you are. *walk away*" it will leave them stunned trust me hunny youll get friends who accept you for who you are :) your special don't forget that.
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