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Fast help needed about a situation at home:Ok I have this bit of a problem- its one that needs sorting soon:
I'm 17, and Over the summer i gave up an hour of all my evenings for a month, because my moms friend who lives down the road asked me to do a job for her while she was away on holiday 3000 miles away. I agreed because i like going to see her cat & to help her cos she's nice, and also i needed the money for college. every evening i watered her huge beautiful garden, sorted out her flowers, fed & brushed her maine coon cat & checked everything was ok. my mom & dad did the mornings cos i had to go summer school. they also took her rubbish out, mowed the lawn once and once fixed a broken statue.
anyways, it was fun but hard work and when my moms friend returned home, she came round to chat to me and thank me. she gave me $50- the same as last year when i did it, BUT she also got me two hollister tops, got my mom some flowers and my dad chocolates.
Thing is as soon as she left, my mom now thinks this is too much to give us, and wants to give my money back to her friend. i said i noticed how she doesnt mind giving back my money but i dont see her giving back her flowers, but i added that i guess she could take my money if she wants (i didnt want her to get mad) but i was quite disappointed really cos every day of my summer after a year of school, nightschool and NOW summer school i had to walk to the house, water the entire garden, check all the flowers, feed the cat, play with him so he wasnt bored, brush his long fur, lock everything back up, when i was totally exhausted and meant to be having fun with my friends.. and COLLEGE on top of everything else starts in a week or two.
The REALLY annoying thing is that my mom is always telling me i should get a job, and my dad is boasting about how he had a job when he was 14, and how lazy i am for not getting one- and when i finally get one because i want a job, she wants to take the money i earned away from me!
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anyways, it was fun but hard work and when my moms friend returned home, she came round to chat to me and thank me. she gave me $50- the same as last year when i did it, BUT she also got me two hollister tops, got my mom some flowers and my dad chocolates.
Thing is as soon as she left, my mom now thinks this is too much to give us, and wants to give my money back to her friend. i said i noticed how she doesnt mind giving back my money but i dont see her giving back her flowers, but i added that i guess she could take my money if she wants (i didnt want her to get mad) but i was quite disappointed really cos every day of my summer after a year of school, nightschool and NOW summer school i had to walk to the house, water the entire garden, check all the flowers, feed the cat, play with him so he wasnt bored, brush his long fur, lock everything back up, when i was totally exhausted and meant to be having fun with my friends.. and COLLEGE on top of everything else starts in a week or two.
The REALLY annoying thing is that my mom is always telling me i should get a job, and my dad is boasting about how he had a job when he was 14, and how lazy i am for not getting one- and when i finally get one because i want a job, she wants to take the money i earned away from me!
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