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Crush Advice...

Okay so there's this boy I like...XD

We've dated for one and a half year then we broke up and now he seems interested in me again (after a year). After going to a Valentine Dance he told me the next day that I looked nice at the dance. Here's the convo:
Crush: You looked nice at the dance.
Me: You did too.
Crush: Why didn't you come and say hi?
Me: Because when I was, you walked away (this was a lie of course)
Crush: No, I was standing.
Me: No, you were dancing.
Crush: Well yeah, but you could've poked me like you usually do.
Me: I don't poke you, you poke me. Then I poke you.
Crush: No, you poke me.
Me: Whatever (I secretly smile)

Then he walks into his house. Did I mention we were walking and he lives next door to me? Anyways....do you guys think he likes me? I bet these questions are annoying but I'm kinda stumped....

Kamille :)
 CourtneyFan17 posted over a year ago
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Buddy8fnj said:
Ok, so let's pretend for a moment that you're name is Bob, mostly because I had trouble having enough patients to get to the end of this paragraph. So, bob, just because your "X" says you looked good doesn't mean he still likes you, you may just be friends. You have to consider all possibilities from all sides Bob, old buddy. And who cares if he talks about poking, Bob, I poke my teddy bears, that don't mean I wanna hook up with them. So, Bob, I want you to sit and think about this person, and think about what they were like while you were dating, and then you need to go buy some insurance, ride a zebra, go skiing, and discover the latitude and longtitude of Narnia...Have a nice day Bob
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Well when he pokes me doesn't mean he wants me but I see what you mean. Thanks for the advice...
CourtneyFan17 posted over a year ago
Goldilottes said:
hi
(sorry this is so long, but i think i can help) :]
Wow when i read what you put about the convo with your crush i was like wow this is prettymuch exactly how a convo went with MY crush at a prom last year! i couldn't tell whether he liked me either, as i hadn't seen him since the year before.
What i think about your situ is, that you need to look at this whole thing from his point of view, particularly the convo at the valentines dance part. imagine yourself saying HIS parts to HIM, instead of the other way round. then ask yourself this: would you say those things if you didn't still have a bit of a thing for him? ofcourse, the whole thing depends on how he said it, and where you were and what you were doing at the time.
personally, from this i seriously think he likes you, and he because, afterall, he is your EX, he's bound to want to take things slowly, and start off byu being just friendly. the two giveaways that he likes you are the You look nice bit, and the Poking bit. trust me, poking is a serious flirt thing.
i can say that, from experience, he likes you. but just a little bit. you shouldn't give up, just take things slowly and day by day build on how you behave.
infact, its probably better you do start out as good friends again, just for the time being, because then it wont feel as weird asking him to hang out with you at the park or go clubbing or something. then build the relationship up again from there. go to places you went when you were together and say stuff like 'remember when we went here and all the fun we had' and all that sort of stuff, and laugh about it. it helps that you live next door ofcourse. i wish i'd lived next door to my crush.
you're lucky because of this, don't let him go. good luck with whatever yo decide to do.
if you think this thru properly, i think it'll work for you girl :)
luv Lottey xx
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Thanks, I read it all and it'll probably help! :)
CourtneyFan17 posted over a year ago
EmzLovesCheryl said:
By the sounds of it, he probably does.

I think you should tell him about your feelings for him. It's the only way you're going to truly find out, and it's always best to be honest.

Good luck! :)
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Thank you!
CourtneyFan17 posted over a year ago
sehdt said:
Yes I think he does but he's I think a bit of a tease and a flirt.
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smileypop9 said:
It sound like you were flirting, so he probably likes you, and you like him, which is good.
Next time you wanna say hi or anything, just poke him. lol
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