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Everything is going wrong :(

My boyfriend and I broke up.. I haven't stopped crying in 5 days. I'm really really depressed.
My school report is terrible, mum is making me get a TUTOR :( I dont even need it, the reason I got a bad report was because I get distracted easily in class.
3 of my close friends are ditching my group for these guys, who all take drugs, who are changing my friends and all putting me and my best friend down.
I have to tell you's this, me and my best friend got the main guy back, we went on a dating website and gave his number to a bunch of sleazy guys and they sent dirty pictures to his phone and texted and called him! Haha.
Anyways, so my love life, social life & education is screwed. And I doubt I would even be here if it wasn't for my best friend. I just want to be happy
 MRS-J0NAS posted over a year ago
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summer448 said:
Every battle you face in life only makes you stronger!
1: screw your boyfriend! No boy is worth your tears and trust me he will be missing you soon.
2: If your friends are ditching you then they obviously not true friends i had to deal with that also this year ..my advise to you would be to recconect with old friends and or just focus on just meeting new people.Stay with your best friend though, of course! x]
3: Your mum just wants the best for you, you can always make improvements on your school work (: keep a positive attidude.
4:Do not go into a depression!!!!!! Whatever you do you gotta kep in mind everything happens for a reason! Depression sux, keep a positive adittude and thank your best friend for sticking with you <3


i really hope this helped :D
....cuz i usually aren't very good at giving advice >.< lol
(i hope none of this sounds stupid -_-)
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It's not stupid. Thankyou for the help. I'm actually feeling a bit happy now.
MRS-J0NAS posted over a year ago
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im glad :3 i'll pray for you kay :D
summer448 posted over a year ago
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i had the same problem, and i think that this is really good advice
hatota posted over a year ago
Monicaluv said:
i'm sorry about this but i dont think i can help. but just remember something bad happens so something good can come in. After every storm there's a rainbow.

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true (; thanks.
MRS-J0NAS posted over a year ago
XDRoseLuvsHP said:
I'm really sorry about your boyfriend. I answered something about it on the other question you posted (hopefully I said something helpful).

I get distracted easily in class too. I totally get it. (I actually have ADD, so I have like, extra time on tests and stuff because of it) Have your grades been bad for a while? Or just recently? If it's been a while, a tutor may be a good thing. If it's only been recently, however, then you may just need to talk to someone.

The best you can do with your three close friends is to warn them. If they don't listen to you, well, there's really not much you can do. Just let them know that in case things turn out badly, you'll be there for them. If they start to make fun of you, then they aren't really your friends, and you should move on. There are plenty of people who would be perfectly happy to be a true friend to you. If they are just into drugs, though, just let them know that you're there.

Please don't even think about killing yourself. Please don't. I will cry if you do (even though I don't know you. I would still cry)

I think what you truly need is to talk to someone. Talk to a psychologist. They will always be there to listen. I personally know how hard it is to talk so freely to someone you don't really know, but it really does help. They can give trained advice on what to do, and they can help make your sadness disappear, and they will always listen to you without judging you.

I'm sure things will get better for you soon enough.
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Thankyou so much. This DID help. Your awesome :) haha. You's allare. And you have all helped. Thanks heaps.
MRS-J0NAS posted over a year ago
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i have add too! ive had a psycologist, but it prolly didn't help that i refused to talk to her. and if you think about killing yourself, remember that there are people here who still need you, and who care about you
skytail127 posted over a year ago
bellamay said:
wellif you have been crying for 5 days about a guy then i am sorry, but you must move on not to be harsh but you must no more crying trust me and being distracted then just try to pay attion and your last prob if they were you true friends they wouldnt ditch you for a guy. just hold in there and things will get better
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amcas97 said:
ok so im sure its not quite as bad as it seems. Theres one important thing to remember in life. You can't have anything good unless there were bad things to compare it to. Like how would you know that was the best peice of pizza you had, if you'd never had other bad pizza. Also remember that no love lasts until you find your soul mate, and you never know for sure until it ends. So the report card thing-make a deal with your mom. Next year or semester or whatever promise to get like all cs or bs or something in exchange for not getting a tutor, or having one of your "smart" friends tutor you. And if you still need help in class try this- if you feel yourself zone out try repeating what the teacher says.That keeps you involved. But don't worry, you're gonna be fine.
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